I fell for a guy, we had our ups and downs but last time we met up he gave me a rose with a sweet text saying he'll keep going for me. He ignored me a few days and yesterday I saw he was back together with his ex? I deleted him from my Facebook and phone, hope this wasn't childish, I just don't fancy being pushed on the fact that he's back together with her when he was so sweet to me before... :(
So lame and cowardly he didn't tell me he: a) wasn't into me like that, and b) was together with his ex again, but no, he chose to ignore me. I really thought he was a good guy, seems like I turn the good guys into assholes :(
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Aw seriously, I don't know why people always brandish an action like deleting someone from Facebook as childish. You had every right to delete him, I mean he led you on, made you believe he liked you and then didn't even have the decency to tell you he was back together with his ex and let you find out through Facebook. He clearly had not thought for your feelings whatsoever. In the real world, you wouldn't choose to ever see him again, and the same should be for Facebook, why would you want to be associated with someone who made you feel like crap. I did the same to my ex, best thing I ever did.
I sense a slightly self-blaming attitude in your question. Do not beat yourself up over this, you are blaming yourself for turning someone from a good guy into an asshole. Honey this guy was probably an asshole from the word go.
You're young, do not waste your precious time over this idiot and let his ex have him. Thank your lucky stars you didn't get further involved, otherwise he would have hurt you a lot more. You are better than that.
Find a nice, genuine man.1