He is my good friend, a very nice and hard-working guy.
He had a 4-yr relationship with a girl and in the 4st year the girl went back to her country.Although she returned for 3 months but then left for home again in April. One month later, she mentioned to break up with my friend saying she won't be back.
After that, my friend was once in great depression and has been suffering from pains all the time because he truly loved her, planned to marry her and just could not forget her.
It has been almost more than half a year since their separating and finally, my friend has been recovered gradually as time went by.
However, suddenly! Yesterday he told me he came to know some truth: His ex actually already started a relationship with another guy when she was in her country 8 months ago before their breaking up. It means she had two relationships during that 8 months. Even if she returned for 3 months, she never told my friend the truth and acted as if nothing happened... What's even more bitchyyyy... knowing they will break up finally, she made my friend spend more than $100000 over the 8 months ...
I can't even accept this fact,it's just so hurting...so cruel,How could she does this to him? .. also, I'm very worried about my friend...
But what could I do to help him walk out of this everything?I don't want him to carry this shadow all his life and I want comfort him without hurting his ego.
Guys, if you were him, what would you do? How would you feel? How can you recover from this thing?
I REALLY WANT TO HELP HIM...
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This is a really poor guy, I'm very sorry for him.
Well there is nothing he can really do, besides accepting the evidence : that he's been manipulated, abused, and that he has to get himself back together.
And to swear, maybe, that he'll never spend so much money on a woman ever again.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE