Fast forward months that followed my feelings for her came back and I wanted her back but did not come out and told her but I guess actions speak louder then words because I tried to maintain contact, and was initiating most of the contacts, but then she started being rude at times and responded harshly to me, teasing her. so I assumed that she had moved on and took my distance. weeks after taking my distance she messaged tom check how I was and inform me that she would be going back to her country for 2 weeks Because a grandfather was sick, I did not reply then she messaged me a week later saying she was at the airport Because her grandfather has passed away, I offered my condolences, she replied again this time saying she missed me a little and was hoping to see me when she's back.
she suggested that we should meet for coffee to update each other, I was busy at the time and said that I would get back to her, but I ended not getting back to her. anyways the last time I messaged her was 5 months ago for her birthday it was a very short and straight to the point message, and I wasn't expecting her to reply. then a month earlier she sent me a request on Facebook with a message asking how I was saying that she hasn't heard from me for a long time and saying that at the time she had just landed and arrived from a trip in thailand, by that time we haven't been in contact for 4 months.
i added her and replied nicely and briefly, which she took as a joke and replied again but I left it like that. anyways what's making me curious is from the pictures she went with a colleague I don't know whether they are actually a couple now. but why is she contacting me after so long to tell me that she had just landed and arrived from her trip after not been in touch for so long ?and if she is actually dating her colleague and had an amazing time why reconnect and contact me immediately after arriving? We broke up a year ago and been in no contact for 4 months... if she is in a new relationship and happy why reconnecting with me now?