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Any guy that has a girlfriend yet sees another girl on the side and doesn't tell the girl he's seeing is a total disgrace! He's a cheat, liar, dishonest and not worth any more of your time. His dangling you on a yo-yo about the loan after you've been helping him with money and car troubles plus all the other stuff is more than most girls could or would ever swallow. You may not realize it but your reputation is on the way down the drain as well as your self-worth. Try to get your money back, but the main thing you need to do is dump him as fast as you can! He's a first-class jerk so don't waste any more of your time with him. He will not be there for you when you want or need him. He's taken advantage of you big time and it doesn't even seem to bother him. He's been a jerk like that for such a long time that he's become desensitized and has lost feelings for other people or for what he continues to do wrong. I'm sure his friends and cousins have probably been wondering what's going on. You will be far better off without him. There's nothing good in this relationship for you. If you don't bring it to an end, he will when you least expect it and it will be a bad ending. You are paying a huge price for what little enjoyment he's giving you. So yes, you should let him go without looking back. The sooner the better!