Most Helpful Girl
sometimes we don't know what's going on in other people's minds
I can honestly say I can get hurt, after break up and it stings for awhile
I have to try to forget him, his family, his friends, what he said I didn't like or what I liked, basically I have to stop caring
I have to say... I have talked to other guys right after the relationship ended or started to end. This is to me is reassuring myself 'this is over'.
It also helps me move on from my ex.I may talk to lower standard or higher standard guys.
since one of my break ups, more than 20 have asked me out, but it doesn't mean I am jumping in bed or throwing myself at them. I flirt , I talk but it is more or less to get over the other guy.
and sometimes I am already over the guy (ex), I just enjoy the talk, that I miss being in a relationship but have no time to really commit myself.
and sometimes pain and emotion clouds our judgement and we choose someone who doesn't deserve us. that is the problem of youth, emotional based judgement and impatience. Because it hurts so much, we just jump into something.
the key for me, not to get too involved. the best thing is to be picky