My ex has a 22 year old girlfriend (he and I are 39). She treats me like shit and slams doors in my face when I drop off stuff for the kids. When he and I get along she is mad stomping and slamming doors. He says ignore her. But when he and I argue she smiles at me and even sticks her tongue out (she makes sure he doesn't see it). I ignore her but I'm tired of her treating me like shit. She even slammed the door on me in front of my teen sons and they became furious and told me theyre scared she might try and start something with me. I'm never going to react to her childish behavior but I'm getting pissed that my ex is letting her do this stuff. She even said infront of our kids that she didn't want them at his house during the week. Again he said ignore her... What should I do or say if anything? I'm too mature for this shit...smh
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The legal way to do it is to take him to court. Have the court put in the order that he picks the kids up at a disclosed location. Also have that the girlfriend can't be with him when he picks up the kids. I've seen it done. I work at a law firm.
As a father that has to pick up his son and drop him off at his moms house I deal with this a lot. Her new husband gives me dirty looks and tries to intimidate me. I used to let him get away with it. Until one day me and my son had a bad day. Nothing we tried to do worked out for us or they were closed. I was in bad mood and the new husband tried some crap with me I stood nose to nose with him and gave him a piece of mind. He stepped back and wanted to swing at me. I told go ahead. I would have kicked his ass and had him put in jail. Then I would of had the leverage I needed to get primary custody of my son. My ex knew what I trying to do, so she stepped in and stopped him. Now he doesn't come to the door when I pickup/drop off my son.