the reason is, I just broke up with my ex and don't want my ex pursuing me.
My feelings dropped when he couldn't be there for me or wanted to go to counselling 6 months ago.
he didn't seem to care about the problems we had. I said I wanted to try. to me it seemed like he didn't want to try.
anyone try this? obviously he isn't talking to me so it's good.
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Did you tell him about your feelings 6 months ago? You should always COMMUNICATE, especially about very very emotional things. Because your feelings might be wrong, it might be a misunderstanding.
I have had this happen to me countless of times. If I hadn't continued to try and talk it out WHILST I was mad, I would have lost at least two very good friends.
He's trying to get you back, so it must mean that he cares. Which means that the reason you were feeling uncared for, could have been a misunderstanding.1