And on top of that, I feel like he's kind of rubbing her in my face, he brings her into my work, (which is a casino) and they do whatever, and I just found out that they are going to a concert that he knows that I'm working. Is it because he's not over me either? I just don't know... Please help?
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If he's over you or not, it doesn't matter. He is with this other girl and SEVERELY disrespecting your healing process.
What a douche for rubbing it in your face. And for picking the same concert that your going to.
Has he talked to you at all?
Best chance of healing (which is also the best way of him possibly coming back). Is by ACCEPTING the fact that he has left you for another and removing him from your life.
Don't talk to him at all - go no contact. Heal from it.
I'm 13 months out of my first breakup and it still sad how things ended. But she chose it, and I know that she still felt something for me, even still a couple of months ago.
But there is no way I can get her back, she will have to come back herself. I have accepted that now.
Hopefully you will reach that point soon too, without doing all the 'effort' to try and get him back, which I did. That only pushes them away I think.