I got married about a year ago and we dated for a year before. Like everything about him made me so happy.
I got pregnant and lost the baby. Something just changed in him and he got such a bad temper and started becoming abusive. I thought it was just him like getting over the baby, but it didn't stop. It just got worse.
We started getting a divorce, but I just can't go through with it for some reason. I am still so attached to him and I shouldn't be. I don't know if I should give him another chance or what.
What do you think I should do?
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I'm truly sorry to hear about your baby and your situation.
Your husband was affected by the loss of your child, just like you, but he is not recovering as quickly. Everyone has their way that they deal with depression and his is on the extreme side. If he is blaming you, he has absolutely no right or reason too. Its just something that happens, and it is unfortunate. Maybe consider counseling or something, but do not put up with an abusive partner. Tell him he needs to calm down and go for counseling or something, or you are leaving. You love him, but love has to be a two way street in order to work. He may still love you, but needs help getting past the loss of your child so he can go back to being the husband you married.
Again, I'm sorry for your loss,
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