I'm 6 months into a breakup and I finally feel like I'm over my ex and the whole black hole that a break up is.
The main reason that makes me think I'm over the worst of it, is that I can look at a girl without thinking what my ex would think of her or compare a new girl to her in any way.
But before this, the breakup felt like a race. I was constantly bothered about Who moved on first, who was happier first, who got over who first. I
Is this a common thing? And if it is a race what difference does it make who wins?