I just don't understand why guys can't maintain relationship just because they lost a job?
I know he was planning a lot about his future with me around his job but...
I have heard that guys always want to feel like they are on the top of their game. Other wise they feel depressed and stressed that they can not maintain good relationship...
Why does this happen?
I am just asking in general...
Most Helpful Girl
It's called a "man with his pride," sweetie. Simple as that. Any time something BIG happens in their life that "strikes them down" along with their deflated ego, they feel like a loser, not good enough for not only themselves, but anyone else as well. So often, not only are they suffering, but they are making the people around them suffer with them.
My advice to you, before the "bottom breaks up" here, go to your sweetie, and make him feel that you are there for him. Make him feel and---believe--that he is going to be not only BETTER, but he IS better for you, and that you will help him find another job, and that you will give him "love support" through this time of hardship.
If he loves you and cares anything about you and your relationship, he will put his tail between his hairy legs, and put that "foolish pride" behind him, and allow you to guide him---in another "well deserved" direction.
Good luck to you both..:))xx0