I have absolutely no attraction to this guy and simply wanted a way to get into VIP at the bar. However, I realize how getting his number was not wise on my part even with these intentions. I did not want to kiss him -- nor did I ever think he would kiss me. If you were my boyfriend and found this out, how would you react? Does it make a difference this guy kissed my friend as well? Should I tell him myself even though this happened months ago?
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Even though this happened months ago and you weren't in the wrong, it's obviously still bothering you, so yes I think you should tell him. Just explain that you mistinterpreted his intentions and that you pulled away as soon as you realized what he was doing and then left right away. I would also mention that you feel bad, even though it wasn't your action and that even though it's not that big of a deal, you just felt it was the right thing to do to tell him. What if he happened to find out from someone else who saw it? He'd be pissed and doubting his trust in you if that was the case.