So I'm 25 and he is too. We knew each other as friends casually in college. He graduated in 2011 and I did in 2012. I was dating other guys most of the time we knew each other, but we were friends (but I was better friends with his sister).
He moved away and is in TX and I have seen him literally 2 min since he graduated in 2011. I am now living in Ohio. A few months ago, as I was ending another relationships he started chatting with me, catching up and stuff. It was great to talk.
In December, I was clearly single and he said during one of our chats, "I was essentially his dream girl and it was only a matter of chemistry" to determine what direction we should go, since we haven't really seen each other in 3 years that's tough. But I did tell him I was pleasantly surprised by his move towards me, I had been interested as well.
Later I asked how long he had been interested in me. He said since 2010 and pointed to a few specific events and moments that I was pretty oblivious of. That was 3 weeks ago and we have had little conversation since. I am old school and think he should initiate calls, texts and such. So I try to keep it to a min. I have not called him - ever.
His words, and because of the type of person he is I am convinced he's serious.
He works alot, and is a tax preparer, so he's busy working 70hrs for another month, but I still feel like he should want to talk more than 1-2 times a month.
So Guys... from this... Would you say he's seriously interested? How often would you talk to a girl on the phone?
I've heard guys lose track of time... but girls count the hours...
Then he got here and the first few days were great :) Teasing. Flirting, etc
Then he kinda freaked out "I'm not ready to get serious or get married yet" and he went home. I haven't talked to him for 2 weeks since he left. Not quite sure what to think... Any thoughts? What should I do?