We broke up because I sent him an email and he took it as personal attack. My tone was harsh and I apologized 4 days later as I was oversea.
He said he already made up his mind that we are not right for each other and he is really offended by that email. I told him we haven't been able to communicate openly because we both have been playing games.
I apologized and told him why I think it would work, he said once I made up my mind about break up I don't change my mind or I would look stupid.
He told me I can still call him to talk, I said you blocked me on Facebook why would I call you... anyway I told him I deserves someone who can forgive and willing to work through obstacles and I wish him well...
any chance I can get him back? is no contact the best bet?
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If the conflict was a misunderstanding, that would be one thing. It sounds like you stand by what you wrote but he took it very differently then you intended. He is determined to be offended no matter what you say and do. He's more worried about looking foolish if others find out he changed his mind than he is concerned about losing you. It seems his pride is way out proportion to what is healthy or could ever be good for you. If that's the case, it was only a matter of time before he blew up at you about something. If it wasn't this, it would be something else. I agree that you deserve someone who can forgive you and other people and also someone who cares more about you than about how he looks to others.0
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