Confused about whether I really still have feelings for my ex or not and if he is interested in me or not?
What Guys Said 1
This is a difficult choice. I assume that you care about both of them. If you broke up with your boyfriend and reconnected with your old crush would you forget all about your ex? I expect now. You might still have feelings for him just as you still have feelings for your crush. This confusion and unresolved anxiety might be the cause of the petty arguments between you and your boyfriend. If these started when your crush reentered your life, I would be suspicious of thoughts that you are losing your love for him.
None of this answers your question or resolves your conflict. Ultimately you need to choose whether to stay with your boyfriend or not. I think that choice is partly independent of whether your crush is interested or not. Ending a relationships really shouldn't be about whether there might be someone better on the horizon. However if you find you really don't love him (independent of how you feel about your crush), it makes sense to end it on that basis alone.
If you decide to stay with your boyfriend, you have to deal with the unfortunate situation where you care about more than one person at the same time. As I said before you might still have that problem is you switch partners.
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