Now, its been 3 days and no contact?
should I just give up? what's going through his mind?
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How long were you with him before you had this conversation? Because there are plenty of possibilities here. You said he's cold and distant, is this out of the ordinary from his usual behavior? He may be taking some time to think things through on his own, as that seems to be the personality type based on your description above. There certainly is the possibility that he decided to end it and is just too meek to come to you and actually state it, but if he made the effort to reconcile and get back together then that says something.