1. Why does he care so much?
2. Does he even seem to really like this girl? What does he mean by "right place the right time?"
3. Should I try to contact him and explain?
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This situations sounds very juvenile.
#1. He cares so much because he doesn't like the fact that you are trying to move on and forget about him and heal yourself. That means you're not trying to wait in the wings for him or be his "friend".
#2.Maybe he likes this new girl,maybe he doesn't. You shouldn't even care at this point. You should be focusing on removing yourself out of his life and not listening to his bull$#it. He is playing head games with you to gauge how you still feel about HIM and you are allowing it by continuing to talk to him.
#3.Why would you contact this person who is clearly playing games and creating stories. Its not magically going to make him want you again. But if you want to lose your dignity and have him hurt you all over again,feel free to contact him. But I guarantee he will continue to act like a douche. Since you're still trying to get him back in some way and he knows he can still get you,even though he no longer wants you.
if I were you,I would block him from every social network,I would not text,call or email..mor would I accept any contact from him. Mutual friends would not be allowed to speak of him,and I would make sure to not magically bump into him at his favorite spot.Guys respect girls who don't put up with their s#it,and right now you're allowing him to run over you...therefore he doesn't have respect. No one can "trick" you into talking to someone. You wanted to tall to him. You could have just as easily got up and walked out of the room instead of talking to your ex...lets be real here. The sooner you are honest with yourself,the better. Cut him off completely...good luck.