So my ex broke up with me about a year ago. About two weeks later we started this on again, off again friends with benefits relationship. Well it got to the point I couldn't handle it anymore. He treated me like a girlfriend, and said I love you among doing other things. So I told him either we're exclusive or we're no longer friends- and I'm not talking to you. He told me that he didn't want to be exclusive, but he was very insistent that we stay friends. He said that he didn't want to lose me. I told him no, and I still haven't spoken to him. So on Valentine's day he texted any happy Valentine's day and that he hoped my night went well. Thentoday he texted me that he got game of thrones season 3, and he hopes I'll talk to him some time. Why does he keep contacting me? Why is he so determined to stay friends?
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Lets get something straight here...HE didn't start a "FWB" thing...you BOTH did. That is the worst thing to do if you actually was hoping to get him back,or truly be friends with him.You allowed him to sleep with you without having everything else a positive relationship would have. Girls always do this thinking he will change his mind down the road when he is not. Instead he is going out and dating whomever he wants and getting familiar sex from YOU...that is until he finds another girlfriend. He wants to be friends so badly so you can stroke his ego (since he clearly knows you still want him),so he can keep tabs on you,and to possibly continue getting free familiar sex. That's about it. Why? Because if he truly wanted to be with you...he WOULD be with you.
if I were you,I wouldn't have anything to say to him for a longggggggggg time. Good luck.0