Have you ever been brainwashed by someone who is a psychopath?

My ex boyfriend had unhealthy obsession with me. He lied, had had flings with random girls but would FREAK out if I even talked to another guy, he had the need to control my life because his life is miserable, abused me emotionally, verbally, sexually and almost financially! I am beyond terrified of him. He was infuriated when I dumped him. He was very much obsessed with me and wanted to gain pity from me and wanted me to love him. He was extremely insecure. He was NOT born this way I don't believe anyone is born a psychopath they are heartless and cold people he almost turned me into one! He had severe anxiety from past traumas but he refuses to change and he was scared to lose me. Why are psychopaths so miserable they have destroys someone's live! He had it in him to murder me and get away with it .I have been severely depressed but I am numb. He traumized me to be on his page he cannot deal with what he witnessed as a teenager. I almost want to hate him with a passion but he said I was not allowed to hate him he fed off my trust and naïve ways but he will NEVER change. I don't have proof to expose him that would be dangerous game to play into his web of lies. He hid it so damn well I am hurt and betrayed of course he has NO remorse. But he feeds off my love and pity for his childhood traumas he thinks that is an excuse to be a psychopath because he did have a normal relationships he had me to brainwash and emotionally abuse. But he hid how he had ZERO meaningful relationships before meeting me. He just cannot let things that happened years ago go. He is beyond saving he needs to be locked up so he doesn't hurt anyone else.

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  • Only WEAK people like yourself get brianwashed. A strong-minded individual doesn't get brainwashed. A Lion does not concern himself with the opinions of a sheep.

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    • Go ahead and THINK what YOU want about ME. He turned me into a compulsive liar prior to that I ALWAYS told the TRUTH.

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    • I will pass on that lol.

    • Are you being homophobic? I did not choose to be this way if this did not happen I would be 100% straight but it is what, I cannot live a lie anymore. I am only hurting myself. I prayed to become straight but it did not work there is therapy but it is not useful.I doubt it works and it living a lie once again.Have you heard of it?

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What Guys Said 4

  • My favorite subject = getting inside your head to destroy you is "The sport of it " , Hunting for insecurities , Inability to learn from mistakes , manipulative , Hyper- focused ,Mimic other people , Inability to empathize , Disregards obligations , No definite sense of self etc etc. He is fixated on you at the moment , to destroy you , but don't let him as " Your distress is his delight " ;)

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    • I know you think there is some good deep inside him but you are mistaken as he is rotten to the core.

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    • Yeah but he was the only one who had the guts to tell me the truth.Despite me having this deadly disorder. I actually meant that apology believe it or not.I can have remorse it is tons of work and I am an extremely nice girl despite this.I have a mood disorder called SAD.It causes me to snap on people I hate that I do it but I am getting therapy to resolve the hatred in my black hole.I clearly have no heart.But I have fallen in love before so it just takes an extremely patient guy.

    • It's not the truth , its about saying how good he thinks he is. Brainwashing can occur to anyone over time ,being consistant and abused . Do you use mood stabilizers ?

  • You're just going through some shit. You just need to seek professional therapy and there's nothing wrong with getting help. Everyone and anyone needs help from time to time.

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  • Please don't diagnose yourself. Having a personality disorder, especially antisocial personality disorder is such a difficult thing to diagnose. We all have traits which are perfectly normal. You sound normal to me. Now you need to learn to live with how you are. the best way to do that is to see a specialist preferably a Psychiatrist. You realize that there is something pulling you away from your normality which is the first big step. Now you need to go and see a professional which is the next big step

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  • I have no idea, I think you should either get psychiatric help or find a lover that will pretend to treat you like total garbage if that's your fettish

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    • I LOVE being with abusive men.My ex boyfriend was the best relationship to date.Who cares if he controlled my life.He was gorgeous.I would rather date an asshole who abuses me emotionally than be ALONE.Plus he knew I loved his abuse.I do not deserve respect.I love assholes.Nice guys DON'T exist.All men are assholes to women.Well I just haven't met any good looking guys who aren't abusive.I would rather be with a guy who is easy on the eyes than an unattractive guy who treats me with respect.

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    • Okay

    • Thanks I will consider that. I don't want to end up dead hahaha. See I am not being MEAN to anyone but my pathetic self. I have to KISS ASS to keep my account on here. I will stop the uncontrollable laughter I promise.

What Girls Said 3

  • I don't think you're a psychopath

    You probably just need some therapy or counseling to help you sort out your feelings and deal with things you may have repressed

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    • Rate up youngaltheticone’s answer he has a very valid point.That was very rude of me to downvote it because it was the TRUTH.

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    • I had one almost one year ago.And I did drugs and I didn't sleep for 3-4 days straight.

    • I NEED to accept my disorder for what it is .It is a dangerous disorder. And trust me you DON'T want to know ME.I am a very DANGEROUS person. I have had close calls with the LAW because I do ILLEGAL things.

  • Can't say I have.. Wow that sounds horrible.. Hopefully you will recognize the pattern for future reference. Glad you pulled free of him

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    • Please rate up youngaltheticone’s answer he has a very valid point.He deserves to get rated up.That was very childish and immature of me to disagree with him and be nasty to him.He only told me the TRUTH because he cares.

  • If you can't expose him, oh well.. but you have to leave him.

    Don't feel sorry for him.. or afraid of his btch azz.. if he was gonna kill you he would have done so already right? If he's so in control like he leads you to believe? Take up karate if it makes you feel safer, or carry a pocketknife or something? He probably lied about how dangerous he is too lol.. don't fall for his manipulative bullsht.

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    • He lives far away but he is so talented in brainwashing women he chose me as his favourite target.I know he is a hurting person deep down inside but since he put the fear in god in me I will fight back and REFUSE to let him assign me to commit suicide they are scumbags.He is no med doctor he made it up to make me love him and it was successful! I HAVE no remorse for hurting this monster either.We both have personality disorders that is why we cannot see eye to eye.I developed NPD after him

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    • I don't see it as a weakness but my compulsive lying has gotten out of CONTROL.I lie about the smallest things. Prior to meeting this psychopath I always used to tell the TRUTH.

    • PLEASE rate up youngaltheticone’s answer he has a very valid point.

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