My ex boyfriend had unhealthy obsession with me. He lied, had had flings with random girls but would FREAK out if I even talked to another guy, he had the need to control my life because his life is miserable, abused me emotionally, verbally, sexually and almost financially! I am beyond terrified of him. He was infuriated when I dumped him. He was very much obsessed with me and wanted to gain pity from me and wanted me to love him. He was extremely insecure. He was NOT born this way I don't believe anyone is born a psychopath they are heartless and cold people he almost turned me into one! He had severe anxiety from past traumas but he refuses to change and he was scared to lose me. Why are psychopaths so miserable they have destroys someone's live! He had it in him to murder me and get away with it .I have been severely depressed but I am numb. He traumized me to be on his page he cannot deal with what he witnessed as a teenager. I almost want to hate him with a passion but he said I was not allowed to hate him he fed off my trust and naïve ways but he will NEVER change. I don't have proof to expose him that would be dangerous game to play into his web of lies. He hid it so damn well I am hurt and betrayed of course he has NO remorse. But he feeds off my love and pity for his childhood traumas he thinks that is an excuse to be a psychopath because he did have a normal relationships he had me to brainwash and emotionally abuse. But he hid how he had ZERO meaningful relationships before meeting me. He just cannot let things that happened years ago go. He is beyond saving he needs to be locked up so he doesn't hurt anyone else.
Have you ever been brainwashed by someone who is a psychopath?
What Guys Said 4
Please don't diagnose yourself. Having a personality disorder, especially antisocial personality disorder is such a difficult thing to diagnose. We all have traits which are perfectly normal. You sound normal to me. Now you need to learn to live with how you are. the best way to do that is to see a specialist preferably a Psychiatrist. You realize that there is something pulling you away from your normality which is the first big step. Now you need to go and see a professional which is the next big step1
My favorite subject = getting inside your head to destroy you is "The sport of it " , Hunting for insecurities , Inability to learn from mistakes , manipulative , Hyper- focused ,Mimic other people , Inability to empathize , Disregards obligations , No definite sense of self etc etc. He is fixated on you at the moment , to destroy you , but don't let him as " Your distress is his delight " ;)1
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What Girls Said 3
Can't say I have.. Wow that sounds horrible.. Hopefully you will recognize the pattern for future reference. Glad you pulled free of him1
If you can't expose him, oh well.. but you have to leave him.
Don't feel sorry for him.. or afraid of his btch azz.. if he was gonna kill you he would have done so already right? If he's so in control like he leads you to believe? Take up karate if it makes you feel safer, or carry a pocketknife or something? He probably lied about how dangerous he is too lol.. don't fall for his manipulative bullsht.1
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