What is your opinion of this? Do you think people like this should stay in a marriage?
Most Helpful Girl
Only can a person talk after they have been in the situation at hand. Everybody blah blah blahs talking about I would do this I would do that but let them live this situation they'll end up eating their words. People normally give advice they wouldn't take themselves so be careful what you let get to you. I don't think it's selfish. I apologize for sounding juvenile but YOLO. You only live once and you are going to sacrifice your happiness so you can fit in with society's expectations of a marriage? "stick it out" "you took vows". Fuck that, shit changes. More than likely when you weren't with the right person to start. I have seen so many fucked up marriages where the woman and sometimes the man are punishing themselves for who they married by staying with them regardless of misery. It's selfish to not care about your mate and put them through your miserable face and your up to par vibe. What are you going to do? Play actress all your life by portraying a happy wife? Well that's not going to get you an Oscar. lol. I refuse to live that way! And I advice that to everyone. Be the woman/man you would want your daughter to be. If you need to talk without being judged hmu :)2