Most Helpful Girl
For me, this is a tough one. But the way I see it, you did the right thing in confronting him with your concerns. For a relationship, you need to be able to communicate. I don't think he should have been angry with you when you told him you would be unable to continue a friendship. I think he should have been supportive (although, he may be angry because he is upset he's going to lose you...maybe he has feelings for you). I understand that he's been through a lot, and everyone needs a certain amount of time to heal, but you can't wait around forever on a "maybe" or "what ifs". You feel hurt, now you yourself need time to heal. Maybe later you can continue to talk and become friends. Like you said, it's probably not the right time. Hunny, I say try not to worry about this too much. Do what you think is right. Take some time to think about what you want. You two aren't committed to each other. See other guys. Figure out your feelings. What's meant to be will always find a way. I hope I've helped even if it's just a bit.