Why am I still hurting 7 months on from my break up?

I am over my ex, I don't want anything to do with him. However now and again little things crop up in my mind about how he treated me and got away with it. He got a new girlfriend only 4 weeks after we broke up and he treats her like a princess. I was so loving towards him, I bought him gifts all the time, I cuddled him when he cried, I looked after him and listened to him whenever he needed me and I never asked him for anything, so why did he treat me badly?

This question keeps cropping up and I feel hurt all over again.

For instance it was Valentine's day recently, and I just thought about how badly he treated me on Valentine's day last year. It hurts. I don't want him back, he's an idiot, but it just hurts still.

Any thoughts on why I am still feeling like this after so long? Surely I should have forgotten about this all by now?

Thank you :)
Why am I still hurting 7 months on from my break up?
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