So, I've been seeing this guy for only 4/5 weeks and in that small amount of time our relationship has jumped from strangers to boyfriend/girlfriend and I don't even know HOW it got there.
I want to break it off, there's nothing wrong with him. I'm just not emotionally or physically attracted to him. Our first meeting was my blazing drunk on my 21st just randomly starting to kiss him (and many other guys that night). He seemed to take that as me being interested. We met the following weekend, I was curious and made it clear it was just a friendly meet up.
The following weekend was Valentine's and he randomly showed up at my flat with chocolates and bubbly, so I let him in and gave him dinner (he arrived around 6pm). Then after dinner he announced he missed his train home and asked to stay the night.
I checked and he has missed his train. So not wanting to be "No, sleep on the streets!" I let him sleep over. Nothing happened! Then we met the following weekend for his birthday which was combined with my friends birthday and he was really clingy and was telling people I was his girlfriend and I felt really awkward and didn't know how to fix the situation.
So, how to I 'dump' him? This is a weird one and I don't want to hurt him because we're in the same social network and I'm fairly new to it and I don't want my new friend to hate me for hurting their 'old' friend
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Its not really possible tbh.
"Im breaking up with you" is pretty much saying but in other words "I don't find you attractive in any way... sorry"
get what im saying? You can say either one and could still be called a bitch by him you know (not saying that you are one, we all have to break up with someone).
My advice break up with him in your own words, but please say "im sorry". Trust me... the guy will accept it and won't go off at you. it happened to me. Unless you cheated on him or something lol
Good luck! :D0
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