My ex gf and I are friends right now and I don't know if I should stay her friend. She telling me she needs time to get her life together and I myself need time to so a friendship would be best. Only thing is she says she likes me but she also likes another dude but she don't know him enough to wanna be with him, he is in a different state, and they talk couple times a week. What should I do? Should I chill and let it play out because I feel me pushing the issue will make things worst.
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if this girl wants her space and thinks you need some time too, you better give her her space. I told a guy this once, I really did care about him and was interested in him but I personally was not at a place in my life where I could commit to another person and really needed time to focus on myself. he didn't respect my wishes, he would text me every day, sometimes non stop, and eventually it just pushed me far far away. it got so annoying I couldn't take it anymore he didn't respect what I said to him and he was being really pushy. I think you should give this girl her space. give her time to think and miss you. if she's hearing from you all the time, she's not going to miss you.0