My ex-boyfriend told me he was coming over on Valentine's day. When I was ready to pick him up he said his mom wanted him to stay home. I overreacted and he called me. We fought and he told me he didn't have a present, that he needed time with his family, he was tired, and said he felt like I was saying I'm more important than his mom. I told him to call me when he is ready to talk without fighting. He never called me. The next day he changed his relationship status to single on Facebook and pictures, he didn't tell me we broke up. A week later, I called him, he acted like nothing happened on the phone but acted like we were just friends. We didn't say much but I told him he was right and he said I was just saying that. He said he was falling asleep and I said goodnight. I texted him to call me when he's ready to talk, he never did. In between all this, he told two of my friends he just needs time with his family, and he might get back with me when he gets out of placement (it's like a boarding school), he said "anythings possible" I feel like he's just saying that to be nice. He acted like he loved me and told everyone I was the best thing for him. He chatted me a few days after the call and acted like we were friends. I asked him if we broke up because he didn't like me anymore and he just wanted to be friends and he said he just needed more time with his family, again. I feel like he's just saying that. He told me I will always be a close friend. I said "Goodbye (with his name) and he said whatever. How do I get him back as a boyfriend? I've liked him since 2010, we have been close friends ever since, we started dated December 27th 2013, a month and a half. Getting over him isn't an opinion, I just want to know how to get him back as a boyfriend. He's only home on the weekends. Also, he told me he was upset I never called him the next day after the fight he said he was scared to call me.
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I would give him space and focus on you and your happiness and gain your independence as a women to where you not affected by any guy not even him and all you can do is do that and make him jealous by showing him how strong of a women you are by getting into a better place and looking hot doing it trust me he will regret ever leaving you once you have control on your life and feelings im working on that myself or you could do something out of the normal and act weird just like he is and just go along with everything he's doing and like nothing is wrong he will think its odd of you to go along with something he tried so hard to convince you about and thinks somethings up but try not expecting a lot from him I wouldn't expect anything from him everything needs to be shown when he's ready to show he cares he will if it takes him to long over time to show it I think you should rethink your decision about being with him because obviously he's not man enough to be straight forward about things and has more maturing to do as one before he can commit to any relationship0
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