I would divorce but I think there's a good change he'll have to pay child support regardless if it's not his. I'm just saying I wouldn't be surprised if the law is this way.
I think in most u. s. states as long as he fights paternity now he won't have to. If he waited a few years, then he'd be on the hook regardless of whether it was his or not.
no he doesn't. she cheated on him... he files for divorce due to this cheating and he owes nothing. plus, paternity test would prove it wasn't his and he wouldn't be obliged to pay anything.
There's a statue of limitations on paternity testing. If its not done soon enough, the court still makes the guy pay. As for divorce, in many jurisdictions the fact she cheated is irrelevant, she still gets half of any assets accumulated and possibly alimony.
This is not the baby's fault. Marriage is about family, sure his wife should not have cheated but that is past. Now move on and accept the circumstances as they are. Always love your chldern especially if you suspect they are not naturally yours, happens mor than most people suspect,
Personally, I'd LOVE to have my wife get pregnant by a black man! I wouldn't be "ashamed" at all! Course, I'm not a racist either! I'd understand if people were looking at the baby and our family weirdly it would be because they are racist SCUM and I'd CALL EM ON IT like a MAN! Not just be a PUSS and let people dictate MY LIFE for me!
So tell your "bud" to quit being a puss, suck it up and be PROUD cause he should be!
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He definitely should divorce her and not pay any child support.
If he starts paying child support, the courts will force him to keep paying.
Yes but it depends on the situation. I didn't explain that well. I do know a guy that paid support on a kid that wasn't his for years. When they found out it wasn't his he went right to court and got the order reversed. That situation is different than this though. There's no doubt the kid is not his with her admission.
Leave her. She's shady and there's clearly something off with her morals. There are better women out there: he should go find them : )
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I feel bad for the guy, but hey... now he can leave her and move on with his life.
Shit happens, but that's the game of life.
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Cool story. But if this happened it's none of your business and surely he could make his own choice be it stupid or not. I am guessing since it's now a half black person that makes it that much worse right?
not worse in a racial way, but worse in that he cannot deny it or sweep it under the rug. It's obvious to everyone who sees the baby and he looks like a disrespected man. If baby was white, he might have not even suspected anything.
Well of course he should divorce her. But you make it sound like the problem is that the baby is black, not that it isn't his. You sound pretty racist.
That's obviously not what he meant. You should have inferred from the context that the marine is white, so her giving birth to a black baby proves that she cheated on him. There was nothing racial about it.
amazing how politically correct zombies pop out of the woodwork to put in their 2 cents of crap about racism. Please don't give me that BS. Read the update.
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I would divorce but I think there's a good change he'll have to pay child support regardless if it's not his. I'm just saying I wouldn't be surprised if the law is this way.
I think in most u. s. states as long as he fights paternity now he won't have to. If he waited a few years, then he'd be on the hook regardless of whether it was his or not.
Yeah that could be :\
no he doesn't. she cheated on him... he files for divorce due to this cheating and he owes nothing. plus, paternity test would prove it wasn't his and he wouldn't be obliged to pay anything.
Logically I would think you're right https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TastJuDJHRg#t=229
There's a statue of limitations on paternity testing. If its not done soon enough, the court still makes the guy pay. As for divorce, in many jurisdictions the fact she cheated is irrelevant, she still gets half of any assets accumulated and possibly alimony.
But its cheaper now then it will be in two years.
https:// www.huffingtonpost.com /2013/07/29/child-support_n_3672474. html
found that too!
Yeah and in the case of the guy in that video, you can be separated and divorcing and still pay because you are seen as the most fit parent
how do you pay child support for a baby thats not urs lmao
If he signed the birth certificate he doesn't have a choice. If he didn't sign the birth certificate he doesn't have to support a damn thing.
No way, he should leave her. That's ridiculous ! It is terrible to think that someone could cheat on another person while they're serving our country.
This is not the baby's fault. Marriage is about family, sure his wife should not have cheated but that is past. Now move on and accept the circumstances as they are. Always love your chldern especially if you suspect they are not naturally yours, happens mor than most people suspect,
Personally, I'd LOVE to have my wife get pregnant by a black man! I wouldn't be "ashamed" at all! Course, I'm not a racist either! I'd understand if people were looking at the baby and our family weirdly it would be because they are racist SCUM and I'd CALL EM ON IT like a MAN! Not just be a PUSS and let people dictate MY LIFE for me!
So tell your "bud" to quit being a puss, suck it up and be PROUD cause he should be!
He definitely should divorce her and not pay any child support.
If he starts paying child support, the courts will force him to keep paying.
If he never starts paying, there's no problem.
Tell him to divorce her and run. Trying to blame him for her cheating!! And no court would make him pay child support on a kid that's not his.
Plenty of courts make men pay child support for kids that aren't theirs.
Yes but it depends on the situation. I didn't explain that well. I do know a guy that paid support on a kid that wasn't his for years. When they found out it wasn't his he went right to court and got the order reversed. That situation is different than this though. There's no doubt the kid is not his with her admission.
Leave her. She's shady and there's clearly something off with her morals. There are better women out there: he should go find them : )
I feel bad for the guy, but hey... now he can leave her and move on with his life.
Shit happens, but that's the game of life.
Cool story. But if this happened it's none of your business and surely he could make his own choice be it stupid or not. I am guessing since it's now a half black person that makes it that much worse right?
not worse in a racial way, but worse in that he cannot deny it or sweep it under the rug. It's obvious to everyone who sees the baby and he looks like a disrespected man. If baby was white, he might have not even suspected anything.
So odd that this question is asked so often here. This is why war is so bad...
"She wants him to stay or pay for child support and says that it's his fault that he wasn't there so she got lonely."
Of course she does... LOL!
Poor bastard.
They should try and work it out before anything else. Its up to him what he does tho.
Well of course he should divorce her. But you make it sound like the problem is that the baby is black, not that it isn't his. You sound pretty racist.
That's obviously not what he meant. You should have inferred from the context that the marine is white, so her giving birth to a black baby proves that she cheated on him. There was nothing racial about it.
amazing how politically correct zombies pop out of the woodwork to put in their 2 cents of crap about racism. Please don't give me that BS. Read the update.
She didn't mean it that way! She is signifying the baby his wife had was obviously by a different father by the eye test!
''You sound pretty racist.''.. Skimmed through your reply to the QA saw the word ''racist'' then decided that your opinion doesn't matter... (:
So this is some Me, myself and Irene type deal. haha. I would just tell him to divorce her.
Divorce, and cleanse her from his life.
Rotflmfao!!! Rotflmfao!!! Divorce her. Rotflmfao!
Let that whore go, he deserves better.
What ever he wants I guess ):
File. And file now.
you divorce the whore wife