its been about 5 months after our breakup and I've realized that its difficult for my ex boyfriend to forget the past and forgive me for my faults. He would call and text me daily, calling me every morning and at night maintaining contact between us and seeing me a few times a week. he's shown heavy emotion recently and would get easily jealous but its been about a week now and he has not contacted me. what could be going on?
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It isn't easy to be friends with past lovers. This is why a period of no contact can be helpful. He's probably getting to the point where he's pulling back so you both can move on and so he can start healing himself. Or, maybe he met somebody else to take his mind off you. Being friends after can be a selfish and self perserving act ( I've done it myself). Why do you really want to keep contact with him? Because you value him as a person or because it makes you feel better about yourself? Give him his space! Take the time to look at yourself and think about what you really need and want. Forgive yourself and start to heal0