I got over him, unfriended him, but yesterday, my best friend (who introduced us) told me that two weeks ago, he was saying how he has been having sex with all these girls... ME BEING ONE OF THEM!!! We didn't have sex, and he told when we were together that he wasn't like that, and didn't want that from me. I texted him last night and he kept apologizing for leading me on (I confronted him about the other girl) although he never gave me a reason for leaving, still. He also kept denying saying we slept together.
Why is he doing this? He was so amazing when we were together and now this? If he couldn't stand to be with me, why would he want people to think we had sex? What changed in him to make him such a prick all of a sudden? My friend said he was never like this until we stopped seeing each other.
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It's probably due to his own insecurities; trying to brag about things that never actually happened. When you were together it probably seemed good because it seems like an act from what I'm gathering in your story.
I've known a lot of people with alcoholic parents who swore never to go down that road only to fall into it themselves on a destructive path. I think a lot of the times they think "oh what the heck, I'm never going to get out of control like they did. It's just a little fun" and it turns into something much worse. That kind of addictive personality is genetic.
I would just forget about him if I were you.0