My ex broke up with me. There was no reason for the breakup. He won't talk to me, and I do love him. I just wanted to know if there was any chance we could get back together down the line after he's "cooled off". Again, I do not know the reason he left. He refuses to tell me. At first he said " I'm not repeating myself", problem was he never gave a reason to start with. From there it just went to anger and insulting me, and now he won't talk unless its to insult me. It's been a month and a half and he still won't talk. Please no " just move on" comments. That's not what I'm asking. I'm asking if any guy has done something similar and went back to his ex later.
I'm also curious as to whether this is a "silent treatment". A sort of punishment for whatever it is that he's mad about. If you do think it's silent treatment, how should I handle it? If I ignore him then I'm no better then he is right?
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I broke up with my now soon to be wife because after all was said and done I had to admit that I was scared of caring about another person other than myself and I didn't come to that conclusion until I was 30 and we had been together for a year. Tree he break up lasted two months and as I said she will be my wife very soon. Hope this helps0