How do I get over my ex boyfriend that I dislike for many reasons?

My ex boyfriend that I dated 2 years ago is like a fresh wound to me still. I really really really dislike him because he did some real shady shit to me that I would never do to him like for instance he bought this beautiful promise ring and the few weeks after that he started talking to his ex girlfriend that he said died in a car accident and got back with her and left me hanging out in the dark. This day he has a newborn baby girl and my friend keeps sending me pics of her telling me how cute she is when I can care less about the child. My ex texted me and told me if I want to sleep with him and I went off on him saying he needs to get the hell out of my face and to leave me alone. What do I do with this. I want to forget everything about him because he's just bringing back memories I don't want anymore, it's just making me want to make him feel what I feel.

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  • Yikes! What a loser! Anyway, the best way to forget about him is to get him out of your life... This means block him on everything you can block him on, including text message, if you have the right phone and software. Second, you need to tell this "friend" of yours that you don't want to see his baby... And if you already did, then you should probably evaluate your friendship with them, because they are only adding fuel to the fire.

    You're doing right by telling him to leave you alone, but I think at this point, the best thing to do is ignore him from now on, even if you can't block his texts. Maybe he is just trying to get under your skin and see your reaction to all this. Either way, he's a moron.

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  • tell your friends that you don't want to hear about anything involving him and tell the ex that you don't want to talk to him again. PERIOD.

    the only way to truly get over some people is to cut them out of your life entirely

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  • He's an a-hole and you are doing the right thing, he is not a good person to be asking things of you that he has no right to ask. Sever all connection and let him know that you don't want to have him around, he has his own life and you have yours. It's not good to let this poisonous user stick around and try and contact you, it's not fair to you and your feelings. Emotions are hard and break ups are hard but they are a part of life, you will be okay, it may take a while but i know that right now you are in the valley, the only way left to go is up. Smile, and go out and do something. Go out for cocoa or coffee, get involved with an activity like Zumba or a book club or a church group and meet others that will lift you up. Best of luck Sweets

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