Does your partner keep in touch with his/her ex? Why? Are you ok with it?

I am dating a guy who has told me about his break up before things got serious with us. He was really close or is close to his ex's kid. He has told me that if his ex needed anything he has her back. He told me this before things got serious and he just recently posted something on his Facebook about it. Now I don't like the idea of that especially when the kid is not his. I haven't asked him about it bc his grandma just had brain surgery. He has told me that he cannot see himself with anyone else but me. Should I be worried or bring it up to him? I don't want to come off as being jealous, but one day he may start a fam with someone or possibly me. I don't want her around or interfering.
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Should I ask him about it? Anything I should keep in mind while I tell him?

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  • Just a little, I know he gets along with a couple of them. He talk sometimes to one and even introduced her to a guy who became her boyfriend. It's just nice. He doesn't talk to much to them though. I would be a little upset like you. I'm not a jealous person but at some point... you're not dating the girl anymore so sure you can be friends... but not... best friends.

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    • Should I ask him about their relationship? I just dont like the idea of him running to her every need if he has no hold or children with her while we are dating or possibly get married. What can I keep in mind when I tell him?

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  • Yep my boyfriend is mates with his ex. It doesn't bother me. I know he wants to be with me and she seems like a cool chick. I'd only have a problem with it if the girl was being bitchy or whatever towards me and it made me feel like she was vindictive.

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    • What do you mean mates? Friends? Should I ask him about their relationship? I just dont like the idea of him running to her every need if he has no hold or children with her while we are dating or possibly get married.

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    • Thanks I will. He hasn't contacted me for a week now. Hopefully it is not bc he's distracted by his ex. His grandma had brain surgery and I just text that I'm praying for him and his family.

    • Don't assume the worst! I hope it all works out for ya, hun.

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