To be fair though,
a. she lives across the country!
b. they broke up years ago
c. we now live together and are happy
d. and he sees her only when we visit our hometown
AAAAND everytime he suggests I meet her i get kinda upset. THe first time I said firmly NO and he didn't see her either (even though i told him to go by himself if he wants, duh) and this time, a year later, i wanted to meet her but i was nervous and he just went without telling me!!
He said he did it to I woulnd't be in a difficult spot trying to decide what to do again.
He apologised for doing it a million times.
I DON"T GET HOW EXs CAN BE FRIENDS AND TALK ABOUT THEIR RELATIONSHIPS AND ACT LIKE THEY NEVER DATED!!!
Any tips before I become a crazy jealous gf? We've talked about all this, yes. He says they're friends just like with anybody else HOW IS THAT POSSIBLE? I feel like he put her above our relationship...
- EXs CAN be friends (and even talk about bf/gf)Vote A
- Exs CANNOT be friendsVote B
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I do think exes can be friends. If you've moved on then the romantic feelings are gone but there's still care and a certain bond. I think they make the best possible friends really; although clearly not always. I mean it doesn't sound like he puts her above your relationship, although he definitely should have told you about it. He does seem sorry though.
It's just a matter of trust really on your part, which I'm not saying is wrong. But I do think it's believable that ex's can be friends.1