My ex boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me over 5 months ago, since then he has continued to initiate contact with me and admits that he just doesn't know what he wants right now, I hurt our relationship by lying throughout the years and I understand that he deserves his space. Since the breakup, I've learned to accept my wrongs and live my life. He tells me constantly that he doesn't want to hurt me by stringing me along especially when he just doesn't know. How can I handle this the correct way so that we both can work this out?
What to do, My ex boyfriend insist of letting go and moving on, but continues to initiate contact with me?
What Guys Said 1
you wouldn't lie at work, right? why would you like to your boyfriend?0
What Girls Said 1
Have u told him in plain English that the best thing for both of u is no contact, especially if that's what he wants? That by continuing to call/text u IS in fact stringing u along? IMHO he's keeping u on the back burner in case he has a change of heart, which is ultimately keeping u from moving on. It's very selfish if u ask me. Explain to him if he wants a relationship then shit or get off the pot, obviously u have to want the relationship too. But if u don't want to be strung along and want to move on then it's best u just tell him u can't communicate with him anymore.0
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