Anyway, a girl I've known for 7 months (dated for almost 3) has just shattered my heart. I was skeptical about even being with her because she had a child but I gave it a try.
If you ask me, what help to unravel our relationship was her male friend, who I dislike very much. He's a coworker. She had sex with this guy before and I told her how I felt uncomfortable about him contacting her and she was like since they are both managers sometimes he would have to, but I told her no late nights.
She acknowledged, but it didn't stand. He continued to do so and she would brush it off as if it was nothing. She told me it was nothing. Just the other day she called the guy in front of me because she needed some information, but I just don't trust the guy. He sent her flowers on Valentine's Day when he knew we were dating. I was pissed and she tried to brush that off as him being a good friend. Soon after, she finally admitted to it being disrespectful and said she had a talk to him about her and him not going to be anything.
Still, I questioned the friendship. Anyway, we have been arguing a lot because of seemingly the same thing - him. She tells me I make it tough because it's just a friendship between the two.
Lately, she has been flip-flopping a lot. Telling me that she thinks we should be friends again and try to salvage what we have and I say no because I can't be friends with someone I have deep feelings for. Other times she agrees to work it out. Well today she told me she wants us to be friends and that I can't change her mind. She tells me that she is not ready for a relationship after all.
This left me broken because I wasn't even interested in being with her until she kept pushing the issue.
She tells me she's deeply sorry for hurting me.
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Think yourself lucky. This is really disrespectful to you. She should have cut all contact with that other guy. She has just messed you about all along. I know you're hurting but you will heal and you will have had a lucky escape.
Next time be more cautious of who you're dating. If your instincts tell you this isn't right then it won't be.
Take care of yourself.
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