Anyway, I don't know what to do, I don't know what I did this time, she won't talk to me only cry. I need help because usually I don't let her go but I'm so irritated by all the bull shit and drama (I hate drama) she puts me through that I let her slip through my fingers. I want her back.
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I think she's pretty manipulative. Give her deadlines. You will ask her what's wrong only a number of times and if she doesn't answer by the third time, you're moving on and it's not that you don't care, it's just that her way of acting isn't beneficial for a relationship. You can't function according to her wishes. She'll make a puppet out of you and you'll end up a sack of guilt and remorse. You won't play rough or have rough sex even if she wants it. She's like a pampered little girl, capable of asking for things and then when it's convenient, holds them against you. She can't get away with it. Do not spoil her. She can learn and she can grow up, but you don't spoil her.