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If you truly love someone you never want to be apart from them for any reason. Maybe something inside you realizes that he would be fighting for you if he really loved you and maybe your accepting it. It took me the year and a half of "trying to save my marriage" time we were in therapy and the 3 months after before I was able to accept that my wife never loved me in our 25 years together. that it was a lie I will never comprehend. but that one night my mind finally flipped a switch and I started to move on. Still hurts like hell because I love her with all my heart. but I don't spend every minute in hell about it anymore.