My boyfriend cheated on me, i became to know it from a girl with who he cheated.. but he said it's truth.
He was cheating on me for 6 months he also told her personal things about me.. she wrote me everything just because she was angry because at the end he chosed me.
I want to stay with him, we are together for 4 years and i love him, i don't have anyone other than him.. we will marry in the future,
But i am worried why he did it? i don't want him to do it again, what should i do? should i become more pretty, sexy, sweet?
I am so confused now.
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He slept with one woman for six months. It could've been longer. You should be glad she told you, otherwise you'd of never known the truth. He didn't make a mistake, fucking one woman for that length of time isn't a mistake it's a decision. He told her personal things which mean it wasn;t just sex for him. I can promise you he has feelings for her. Cause he didn't have one night stands on the side with women he had no connection with. He chose you because of history, he chose you cause he invested that time in you, and who wants to feel like they wasted 4 years. It;s probably one of your reasons to stay.
Gosh he's known you for 4 years, he knows so much about you, different ways you look. You shouldn't have to change. He loves you but he isn't in love with you anymore. Cause if he was in love with you he would NEVER cheat for 6 months and more on you with ONE woman who he has/had a connection with.
She loves him and he has feelings for her that's why it went on so long. He probably led her on. She probably didn't know he was with you so she got angry and told you to get back at him for lying to her.
Why do you wanna be with him so bad? He's obviously very confused and you definitely aren't making him happpy anymore.
I can promise you he will cheat again. You lack self respect cause you are taking back a man who would've never told you on his own and probably continue to fuck that girl or others. He had enough time with doing her to realize what he was doing was wrong, to think about how it would affect you and your relationship with him but obviously what she has and was giving him was more important so he continued fucking her.
I am so sorry this happened to you. But I think you should break up cause you don;t wanna waste even more years on someone who can't stay faithful.3