My gf has a problem with this and we have arguments about this, she says why does Lucy feel like she can text me and befriend me, she said it's not the way a girl should act with her friends boyfriend. I say me and Lucy are good friends she says that's wrong because Lucy met me through her so she should be involved in our friendship rather than just me and Lucy being independently friends. We argue over this for like 6 months she cries over it and wants me to stop speaking to her i think she's being overly dramatic and controlling and eventually we break up over other reasons like general arguing but this was the main reason my gf broke up with me, 2 months after the break up we start speaking again and a 1 month after we start speaking we are on the verge of getting back together i was willing to do anything to make us work so said i would speak to the Lucy girl less if it bothers her, she said she would only feel comfortable with getting back with me if i block her and never reply to her messages and just say Hi and bye if i see her on the street, i did this because i love her and want to make it work but i feel terrible I blocked the girl on my gf's request but after about 2 weeks she called me saying...
Most Helpful Girl
I think your gf has huge trust issues, she's way too controlling, i think you should call Lucy and explain all this situation, no one deserves to be cut out like that with no explanation, and you really want to be with a girl like your gf? Today will be Lucy, but tomorrow will be something else, i think you should reconsider if you truly want to be in a relationship with someone like that
Most Helpful Guy
Its a crappy situation, but the simple fact of the matter is that if you actually like your girlfriend and want to have a future with her you are going to have to go along with things like this. If the shoe is on the other foot and you demand she stop speaking to a guy you find to be too friendly with her then you should expect her to listen to your concerns as well.
It is controlling, it is childish, and it does reek of unnecessary jealousy on her part. I would not have rekindled the relationship with a girl if she demanded I cut off a friend who had done her no wrong. This just comes down to a tough choice for you. Your girlfriend, who you already indicated you had broken up with over arguing about other matters as well, or a girl who you are friendly with and has let you know that she misses your company.
And for the record, saying she caused a lot of problems is ducking your responsibility. The problem is that you argued about this matter for six months with your girlfriend instead of making a decision one way or another earlier.