Is he being selfish or am I?
Most Helpful Guy
Sorry, but who cares? He's your ex.
You're going to need to distance yourself from him if you're going to get over the breakup. He might not like it, but guess what? It's not all about HIM.
Most Helpful Girl
He is being selfish. Do what you feel you need to do. If he wanted to be around you or with you, he wouldn't have broken up with you. Good luck.