Hi guys, so basically I have been in a long distance relationship for the past 4 years. Me and my bf have spoke every single day, we love each other to death. He visited me every 3 months.
But things started changing, I had a lot of personal problems, grandad got diagnosed with cancer etc etc so I became quite difficult. Also, he got busy so he had not time for me etc.
Now he wants to leave me :( but I love him sooooo much, can't even put it into words. He loves me too but he says he feels he is ready to go on. Before when I spoke about breaking up...he wouldn't let me...he wasn't "ready" now he feels ready but I am not! He wouldn't understand.
I wanted him to at least phone me to explain why but he refuses. I think he is scared that I will convince him not to so he avoids any physical contact.
I am quite desperate to have him back so I made this animated video about me and him. It's really cute...includes reasons why I love him and has our favourite music etc.
But I really wanna know what he would think of it before sending it to him. What do you guys think?
Also, I wanted to go and visit him but he kept on saying don't come...I am busy and I am not ready. What does that mean?
Thank you all in advance! x
P.S. He is quite mature, 28 years old
- Send him the animated videoVote A
- Don't send him the animated videoVote B