For guys and girls, from whatever you class personally as cheating, would you take your partner back if they did this?
- YesVote A
- NoVote B
Most Helpful Guy
If I loved her, yes. I'd be hurt, I'd know she could cheat again, but that wouldn't stop me from taking her back if she wanted to come back.
The question isn't what would be the biggest triumph for me. It's what she wants, whether I'm good for her, and whether she'd benefit from being with me again. Does she want to be with me again? That's how relationships should work.
We think that sounds like being a doormat, but too many people are so afraid to be doormats that they let pride keep them from forgiveness. People can change. Addicts can quit. It's one moment and one choice at a time for all us.0