During our break up I had to live myself again. I started dating and sure sexual encounters followed, but after months of this I realized I simply moved on. People always talk about moving on from ash ex but what if they meant from all the problems that were dealt in that relationship.
So I heard her out and I told her that I didn't want to end like those couples that get back together and break up the next month. I thinking the long haul. So we started fixing the one thing that had to go from our relationship.
Next was trust. I felt like we had to work on that before we got back together at all. So shed said we could be friends until she earned my trust again.
So right now we are not dating, but we are just concentrating on us. My friends of course are against this, but it's not like I jump Willy nilly. We taking it slow. I'm not going to lose my friends for this relationship, but I don't want to lose her just cause nobody agrees we are seriously trying to fix this.