My boyfriend and me broke up up. We were together for a year and I loved his so much. His excuse was he wanted to move back to his hometown. I said to him I would move for him, but he wasn't overly keen. He also said because he is christian that his parents would not allow him to move in with someone unmarried. I agreed because I also wanted to do things properly.
3 weeks after we broke up he got a new girlfriend and I found out he met her whilst we were together.
Fast forward 4 months and guess what, he moved into her flat.
How can a Christian man lie like this, I'm so angry with him. He just used me for a year whilst he was studying.
I can honestly say I hate this guy, he is a weasel and wish I had never met him.
He claims to be Christian but is treating others like dirt.
How do I get over this betrayal and hurt?
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As a Christian, it's been the "Christians" who have hurt me the worst. Lied to me, stole from me, treated me like garbage. Even pastors, refusing to listen to what Jesus commanded them to do. It says in the last days that many will depart from the faith. 1 Timothy, 4:1,2 1But the Spirit explicitly says that in later times some will fall away from the faith, paying attention to deceitful spirits and doctrines of demons, 2by means of the hypocrisy of liars seared in their own conscience as with a branding iron.
So you see, that just because someone claims to be a Christian, does not mean it is true. I have been treated better by unbelievers and Atheists, truth be told, than some of my fellow Christians. We are all human, and flawed- to think of us as having achiever perfection is a false way of believing. Your ex boyfriend is no different, he is subject to sin and temptation.
I hate to say it, but perhaps he did not love you as much as it seemed. I am sorry if this is true, but you are better off without him as your boyfriend, who seems to be compromising his faith.0