Most Helpful Girl
I didn't even read this whole thing. I stopped at the part where you said that she's been taking secret phone calls and texts in the middle of the night. If it were a one night stand, then yes i think forgiving her would be worth a shot. But this is not a one night stand, this is no innocent fling. If she's being sneaky, going behind your back, talking to her ex? Come on man, seriously. There are a million beautiful African American girls in the world that aren't going to screw you over like this. Every minute you spend with her is just a waste of time because she's obviously not very interested in you now is she? If she were, she wouldn't be so worried about the other brothas.
Most Helpful Guy
her excuses sound like b.s. I mean why would an ex text saying it was good seeing you over the weekend if he weren't serious?
I think she cheated, the drunken pleadings not to leave you were probably her true conscious feelings coming out because she knows she's guilty.
I wouldn't buy her excuses they sound really lame.
Should you block her number? I mean that's up to you but no matter what I wouldn't her excuses. I'd tell her if there were any chance in the world that you two could work then you HAVE to know the truth.