I'm over her and I've moved on as best as I can however I'm still having trouble with one or two issues.
Because she's unemployed and we have child together she got a house for free. I have a job so at the minute have to stay at my parents while I save enough to get back on my feet. This has done a number on my self esteem as I feel ashamed although I have no choice at the moment as I have to save enough to provide a good house and start for me and my son.
The second issue is that my ex moved onto a new bf after 2 months, the kicker is that he's actually a good guy. My issue being that she cheated on me and yet she gets to move on to a happy relationship. This is compounded by the fact that despite my best efforts at online dating and trying in the real world I can't get a date. Since the break up I've moved on as best as I can in my circumstances. I've lost weight, taken up new hobbies (kickboxing, the gym, football) updated my clothing and personal looks. I generally try to see the brightside of being single but every once in a while ( like tonight) I'm stuck on the injustice that my ex cheated yet she gets to walk off in the sunset with a new bf new house whilst I'm stuck at my parents house with no prospects of a date. When I read this back it sounds like a pity party but I have to say I'm generally really positive and I am in a better mental place but I'm fed up of putting a brave face on things as I have noone in my life to tell that my self esteem is shredded. Has anyone. In my position come out of the other side in a good place?