So, I am a British lad who took some work over in Ireland where I subsequently met my girlfriend.
Things were going well there and when our contracts expired, she suggested I moved to Germany with her (which I did), but there is a bit of a catch. She already has a 6 month trip booked in Asia.
Don't question why I came here, it is something I was planning to do anyway, since my brother lives here, better lifestyle, better money etc.
Anyway, so she phones me last night (about 50 days before she's due home) and apologises that she ended up kissing this lad the other day. She says she was not even drunk, it just kinda happened, but nothing more.
Now, I completely understand that it is difficult, especially when you're drunk -think about what I am dealing with here in the pub every Friday /Saturday night. And I also understand that it was just a kiss, and really; a kiss? What even is that? Not really worth crying about spilt milk.
Problem is, it kind of did hurt, and I am a little bit stuck as to what to do. I don't want to throw it all away, that's for sure. Maybe a little bit of advice from someone who experienced a similar issue?
Many thanks all, for your input.
Most Helpful Girl
I feel you. I've been cheated on also. :( You are iffy about this because you know that what she did is something that should never occur in a relationship. You need to realize that this is cheating. You are so much better than this...I know it's hard but trust me you will be okay the sooner you move on.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
Really depends on how YOU feel about it? Is it still worth it to continue the relationship? Do you think she'd ever do it again?
She was honest. I think this may happen to a good amount of couples and the significant other never tells.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE