And this isn't a game. Its like maturity and efficiency. Study it all and think about it deeply. You will see how this will mend with your life if you are living to your full potential as a man.
"If you want to talk to me just talk to me, don't play games." - Talking in person is better than text. Agree? So why have a conversation that could be very meaningful in person but then do it over text which you forget cause its so bland. No game. If you are confident, efficient, socially intelligent and ambitious passion driven hard working man then You will do this naturally. No game.
Exactly she gets used to having you around and then takes you for granted. And when you get together there is nothing exciting you have already had the conversations on the text. You will be like what I say? Just a bad way to go...
The thing is, if the girl in question actually likes you, there really needn't be 'texting rules' or game-playing involved. If I like a guy, he can text me as much as he wants and I'll like it either way.
There is no game... No you won't like it either way it will get boring. I have done both text everyday and keeping the for date setting. Guess what works. A lit of guys would agree with me here
What in the world are you talking about? ace or an unreturnable? drop volley gets caught on the baseline of texting? break point and its a double fault? "Complexity is the enemy of execution" - Tony Robbins
Once you love yourself for who you are by yourself when you have ""Nothing" then you are open to experience true unconditional love with someone else. Funny that
Hi, awesome read and I will certainly use it. Need some advice, so I asked this girl out last Monday for next Friday (valentines weekend) when should I confirm time with her? After reading your article I haven't messaged her for about 2 days now. My buddy tells me not to message her till Sunday or Monday. Should I wait that long? Any suggestions will help. by the way we did meet online.
Okay when you set a date you should have a time while doing that. What you can do when doing that is this. Right you set the date you have a date Friday. Now just say sweet l will pick you up at 7. Now if she has a problem with that she will say something like. No that's too early or I am home at 8 pick me up then you know. Woman help you if they like you. Otherwise she will be like okay or see you then. You know? For your case tho just text her something like this. Hey for Friday I am going to come you up at X. So be ready ;). She will suggest a time if its inconvenient. You can really just message her like right now if you want. Then confirms the times and be like alright cool i have to run but I will see you then.
Very nice advice, this is very true. How about calling her? I know this is just texting, but calling is the next step. When to call her? Should i even call her?
If you are going to call and not text same thing. Make it short and to the point... Ask her out in like 10 mins max make it definite date and get of the phone.
If the ex contacted you. State you are not interested in friends but only romance. And make a date. If the ex didn't contact you not much you can do except go out there and find someone a million times better.
Let me add also the part of if a girl text first is becaue she likes him right? Well what if the guy does not get the drift and he is clueless that if the girl is making hte contact first is becaue she likes her. WHat if he ain't got the clue but he kept texting you normally and u both tease a little and flirt, but that does not mean the guy likes the girl.
Okay why would he look at this guide if he doesn't like the girl. I said in the guide what to do if a girl texts you first. Its in there. If he is still clueless there is nothing no one but the girl he is texting can do.
There is no Game it makes sense if you think about it deeply. There is no game. If you are busy you can't text all the time. You talk more if you dont "talk" before the date. No game. But you dont have believe any of it. All of this works.. you can choose if you follow it or not. Everyone knows being healthy feels and looks good. But people don't follow it.
what is so special about her that I have to be someone else too get her? why do I have to act a certain way?, say things she likes?, do things that attract her attention? (why can't I just be myself) that's why are you hear me say all these things, cause I promise she is not changing for me,
she is not changing how she thinks for me, how she acts for me, so why waste m time on American women all there good for is a fuck
Your not being someone else if you are confident, efficient, socially intelligent and ambitious passion driven hard working man then You will do this naturally. "she is not changing how she thinks for me, how she acts for me, so why waste m time on American women all there good for is a fuck" With a negative attitude like that then you are never going to get anywhere man.
the funny part is I can do this and say these things and I still get laid now when it comes to relationships after I learned all this, I don't want one, I really don't, I don't trust women and I know for a fact there are good women but there in such small portions its crazy, I read everything the girls say on this site I wouldn't date any of them, there mentality is stupid but I don't blame them, they don't know anything else, now I can teach them but most don't wanna learn, so since they won't learn all there good for is a fuck
It sounds to me like because you have not found the kind of girl/woman you are looking for. Now that makes you pissed off. Thus you start blaming "American woman" And all the woman on this site for this as they are not how you think/want them to be so then they are just good for "What you said starts with an F" Are you sure this is a healthy mindset?
1) I'd have to teach them that they are not better than men and yes trust me most of them believe they are, installing this would take years 2) I'd teach them that men should not become what they want, cause that's whats happening, pay attention men are changing themselves and who they are for women because women won't accept them as they are, and im not talking about looks im talking about personality and thought process its too fucking much 3) I'd teach them too actually LIKE too be treated good by men and treat them back nicely, cause when you treat women nicely they use those men and that's a fact happens 90% of the time cause they think there better than men 4) I'd teach them that as men we give them freedom the list goes on if you wanna know more
"3) I'd teach them too actually LIKE too be treated good by men and treat them back nicely, cause when you treat women nicely they use those men and that's a fact happens 90% of the time cause they think there better than men " Treating a woman nice and seeking her approval/putting her onto a pedestal. You are mixing these 2 up.
1) I'd have to teach them that they are not better than men and yes trust me most of them believe they are, installing this would take years. Most actually do not think they are better than men. I have no idea where you get that from. Besides why are you bothered if one woman thinks she is better? Move on to the woman that you want.
"2) I'd teach them that men should not become what they want, cause that's whats happening, pay attention men are changing themselves and who they are for women because women won't accept them as they are, and im not talking about looks im talking about personality and thought process its too fucking much " Men are not changing they are going back to how it is suppose to be. Look at old movies the way men are not chasing and seeking woman's approval. Thats how it was but now movies and society are brainwashing you from a young into thinking that Doing what the woman wants/ Trying to please her will get you her heart.
man I started doing sexually things with girls when I was 15 and I'll tell you from experience most women are pretty much the same small differences here and there but it's a nice simple program they have very basic, same with men very simple,
im not mad at women I don't blame them they where raised wrong so are the men im just willing to be as honest as possible now
"4) I'd teach them that as men we give them freedom" What are you talking about? So they should serve you because your ancestors said they can vote and work at the same place? This is a bad way of saying u want them to respect you.
Woman all respond to the same things emotionally. But they are not all the same. Every woman was her own unique attributes , quirks , interests and life view. You my friend need to stop looking at what others are doing and how they are performing. You need to start looking and focusing on yourself. What your standards are and follow your goals and vision. Start focusing on that. Then if you find someone who share the same views as you. Date them. The higher you go up the ladder the higher the quality of people you come across. And the ladder is different depending on the interest you have
no this is me stating the obvious as men we are stronger, faster, we design most of whats on this planet,
the fact is they are weaker than us and even they will agree too that, now we can abuse that if we want as men, they can go to college get a PHD etc, but the moment we get or hands on them there fucked read history there was a man who had 30 women chained up, and if one didn't listen he would beat her until she was bruised and bloody and we can do that as men easily, BUT WE DON'T we care about them and give them the freedom too chose, so yes we as men give them freedom
see your looking at this like an ALPHA or a PUA im trying too break that cause its not necessary there's no point to it all its doing is feeding women stupidity
Being an Alpha is the most freeing thing. Its being a leader. Its taking control of your life. Its becoming the pilot instead of being the passenger. Alpha can be male or female. In some ways we are stronger than woman but also in a lot of ways we are weaker. And if you think long enough you can see the areas where men fall short. You saying that we give them freedom? That is a very controlling statement. No woman or man wants to be controlled. I Don't agree that men give female's freedom. I completely disagree with that. Alpha is a leader we need that in this world. And being one is not feeding a woman who are not stupid. No one is stupid. Everyone is good at something. Fact: Some woman are fucked up and some men are fucked up. The thing you linked. Things like that happen off of this site too. It happens some men cheat.. some woman cheat. You dont have to be with those people. Set your own standard. Thats another thing
I or anyone else who became Alpha did not do it for woman. You do it for yourself. You do it too take control and shape your life the way you want it to be. I have things in my mind about how a SO should treat me and how I should treat them. It boils down to this. If both people go into a relationship to give and only give. Then both peoples needs will be met.
your 18 you don't know how to be alpha right now its all about fucking and women at your age I know trust me I was 18 once
and an alpha is not a leader if you wanna believe the stuff online that's not what an alpha is cause than that means im an alpha, and my cousin, and my mom and the list goes on, took me a while too realize what an alpha is
also okay this one is number 2757 the number doesn't get any lower and you want me too trust women lol good luck man, do some studies on cheating and how much it actually happens both for men and women, understand there are good women but like I said there in such small amount its crazy how small it actually is
I have done my studying and researching to know what an alpha is. Don't look at what others are doing my age. "alpha is not a leader" You are very mistaken with that statement. Just before you were telling me I look at things at an Alpha perspective but now I am too young to do that? Why did you link porn? I guess you were cheated on and now every woman is a cheater? Go out there in the world and stop rationalizing your fucked up mindset. Very unhealthy. Do that and you will see there are a lot of woman out there who won't cheat. The Alpha is the leader of the pack. So you saying an Alpha is not a leader you are wrong. An Alpha leads by example. An Alpha takes care of themselves and feeds their mind. They lead... A company's greatness starts with the leader. My age has nothing to do with this.
You need to stop living with a scarce mindset. This is your downfall. Start living in a abundance mindset or you will be miserable. Negativity will eat you and everything you care about.
like I said you don't know what an alpha is its not a leader and no im not scared people say stupid shit and I call them out on there stupid shit, that's the difference between me and them, I'm not a kiss ass, and dude don't try to play ohh you've been cheated on crap now your mad at women cause everyone has been cheated on, not just once but multiple times that's how life works, and don't talk about ohhhh negativity with so much going on and you want me too ignore it WHAT!!! like I said not an alpha I hate that term anyway
I didn't say everyones been cheated on... Who said you were scared? That must be what you think we think of you then... And negativity does not mean you ignore things... You dont let it affect you badly aka getting angry/ upset or even miserable.. Instead your happy and focus on the good and why this shitty thing that happened to me is good. Thats being positive does not meaan you ignore anything. You seem to try really hard to feel significant.. First you stated your older than me making you more wiser by societies terms which in turn makes you feel significant. Like you matter more. You hate the term Alpha because deep down you dont feel alpha so if someone says Im alpha or talks about alphas you feel inferior/ less significant which makes you feel shitty. So you ended up hating the term. By saying everyone gets cheated on it makes the fact that you were cheated on less severe. Cause it happens to everyone and thats how "your life" works. It doesn't make you feel as bad by saying tht
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I don't agree with much of the stuff in this post. If you want to talk to me just talk to me, don't play games.
What don't you agree with?
And this isn't a game. Its like maturity and efficiency. Study it all and think about it deeply. You will see how this will mend with your life if you are living to your full potential as a man.
"If you want to talk to me just talk to me, don't play games." - Talking in person is better than text. Agree? So why have a conversation that could be very meaningful in person but then do it over text which you forget cause its so bland. No game. If you are confident, efficient, socially intelligent and ambitious passion driven hard working man then You will do this naturally. No game.
Very nice take, I know from experience talking to her for hours through text everyday is just a bad bad idea...
Exactly she gets used to having you around and then takes you for granted. And when you get together there is nothing exciting you have already had the conversations on the text. You will be like what I say? Just a bad way to go...
The thing is, if the girl in question actually likes you, there really needn't be 'texting rules' or game-playing involved. If I like a guy, he can text me as much as he wants and I'll like it either way.
There is no game... No you won't like it either way it will get boring. I have done both text everyday and keeping the for date setting. Guess what works. A lit of guys would agree with me here
Agree with opinion owner
But what if your first text was an ace or an unreturnable?
Or what if she does text back but you play a drop volley and she gets caught on the baseline of texting?
Or what if you text on a break point and its a double fault?
What in the world are you talking about?
ace or an unreturnable?
drop volley
gets caught on the baseline of texting?
break point and its a double fault?
"Complexity is the enemy of execution" - Tony Robbins
You naming tennis terms a Ha ! Funny haha
In tennis when you have nothing, you have love.
Once you love yourself for who you are by yourself when you have ""Nothing" then you are open to experience true unconditional love with someone else. Funny that
Sometimes even when you're 2 sets to love down and 40 love and match point down, you can come back to win in 5 sets.
Its never to late to be the Confident Alpha male you were suppose to be in life.
Hi, awesome read and I will certainly use it. Need some advice, so I asked this girl out last Monday for next Friday (valentines weekend) when should I confirm time with her? After reading your article I haven't messaged her for about 2 days now. My buddy tells me not to message her till Sunday or Monday. Should I wait that long? Any suggestions will help. by the way we did meet online.
Okay when you set a date you should have a time while doing that. What you can do when doing that is this. Right you set the date you have a date Friday. Now just say sweet l will pick you up at 7. Now if she has a problem with that she will say something like. No that's too early or I am home at 8 pick me up then you know. Woman help you if they like you. Otherwise she will be like okay or see you then. You know? For your case tho just text her something like this. Hey for Friday I am going to come you up at X. So be ready ;). She will suggest a time if its inconvenient. You can really just message her like right now if you want. Then confirms the times and be like alright cool i have to run but I will see you then.
Very nice advice, this is very true. How about calling her? I know this is just texting, but calling is the next step. When to call her? Should i even call her?
If you are going to call and not text same thing. Make it short and to the point... Ask her out in like 10 mins max make it definite date and get of the phone.
"Don't beat around the bush".
This is helpful. Thanks.
Would this work with an ex of 3 months ago? Is there anything i would need to do differently?
If the ex contacted you. State you are not interested in friends but only romance. And make a date. If the ex didn't contact you not much you can do except go out there and find someone a million times better.
You wrote "If you are texting a girl chances are you like her". That does not always happen believe me. It happened to me and it id not work.
Let me add also the part of if a girl text first is becaue she likes him right? Well what if the guy does not get the drift and he is clueless that if the girl is making hte contact first is becaue she likes her. WHat if he ain't got the clue but he kept texting you normally and u both tease a little and flirt, but that does not mean the guy likes the girl.
Okay why would he look at this guide if he doesn't like the girl. I said in the guide what to do if a girl texts you first. Its in there. If he is still clueless there is nothing no one but the girl he is texting can do.
Stopped reading at..
"Dont be so sexual
1. Stop trying to "Turn her on" over text.
This does not work."
Dude you should see my collection of nudes lmao
thanks for making this mytake, this will help me so much!
I hate all of this cause it attributes too a women's game
but it's very true
but I don't follow an of this and won't
There is no Game it makes sense if you think about it deeply. There is no game. If you are busy you can't text all the time. You talk more if you dont "talk" before the date. No game. But you dont have believe any of it. All of this works.. you can choose if you follow it or not. Everyone knows being healthy feels and looks good. But people don't follow it.
LIKE I SAID (IT DOES WORK) BUT IT PLAYS INTO HER
AND NOT INTO ME, WHAT THE FUCK IS SO SPECIAL ABOUT THIS BITCH,
AMERICA WOMEN ARE SUCH GARBAGE
"BUT IT PLAYS INTO HER
AND NOT INTO ME" What do you mean by this?
"AMERICA WOMEN ARE SUCH GARBAGE" - totally unnecessary
what is so special about her that I have to be someone else too get her?
why do I have to act a certain way?, say things she likes?, do things that attract her attention?
(why can't I just be myself) that's why are you hear me say all these things, cause I promise she is not changing for me,
she is not changing how she thinks for me, how she acts for me, so why waste m time on American women all there good for is a fuck
Your not being someone else if you are confident, efficient, socially intelligent and ambitious passion driven hard working man then You will do this naturally.
"she is not changing how she thinks for me, how she acts for me, so why waste m time on American women all there good for is a fuck" With a negative attitude like that then you are never going to get anywhere man.
the funny part is I can do this and say these things and I still get laid
now when it comes to relationships after I learned all this, I don't want one,
I really don't, I don't trust women and I know for a fact there are good women but there in such small portions its crazy,
I read everything the girls say on this site I wouldn't date any of them, there mentality is stupid but I don't blame them, they don't know anything else, now I can teach them but most don't wanna learn, so since they won't learn all there good for is a fuck
So what would you teach a woman? Lets hear it.
It sounds to me like because you have not found the kind of girl/woman you are looking for. Now that makes you pissed off. Thus you start blaming "American woman" And all the woman on this site for this as they are not how you think/want them to be so then they are just good for "What you said starts with an F"
Are you sure this is a healthy mindset?
1) I'd have to teach them that they are not better than men and yes trust me most of them believe they are, installing this would take years
2) I'd teach them that men should not become what they want, cause that's whats happening, pay attention men are changing themselves and who they are for women because women won't accept them as they are, and im not talking about looks im talking about personality and thought process its too fucking much
3) I'd teach them too actually LIKE too be treated good by men and treat them back nicely, cause when you treat women nicely they use those men and that's a fact happens 90% of the time cause they think there better than men
4) I'd teach them that as men we give them freedom
the list goes on if you wanna know more
"3) I'd teach them too actually LIKE too be treated good by men and treat them back nicely, cause when you treat women nicely they use those men and that's a fact happens 90% of the time cause they think there better than men "
Treating a woman nice and seeking her approval/putting her onto a pedestal.
You are mixing these 2 up.
1) I'd have to teach them that they are not better than men and yes trust me most of them believe they are, installing this would take years.
Most actually do not think they are better than men. I have no idea where you get that from. Besides why are you bothered if one woman thinks she is better? Move on to the woman that you want.
"2) I'd teach them that men should not become what they want, cause that's whats happening, pay attention men are changing themselves and who they are for women because women won't accept them as they are, and im not talking about looks im talking about personality and thought process its too fucking much "
Men are not changing they are going back to how it is suppose to be. Look at old movies the way men are not chasing and seeking woman's approval. Thats how it was but now movies and society are brainwashing you from a young into thinking that Doing what the woman wants/ Trying to please her will get you her heart.
man I started doing sexually things with girls when I was 15 and I'll tell you from experience most women are pretty much the same small differences here and there but it's a nice simple program they have very basic, same with men very simple,
im not mad at women I don't blame them they where raised wrong so are the men
im just willing to be as honest as possible now
"4) I'd teach them that as men we give them freedom" What are you talking about? So they should serve you because your ancestors said they can vote and work at the same place?
This is a bad way of saying u want them to respect you.
Woman all respond to the same things emotionally. But they are not all the same. Every woman was her own unique attributes , quirks , interests and life view. You my friend need to stop looking at what others are doing and how they are performing. You need to start looking and focusing on yourself. What your standards are and follow your goals and vision. Start focusing on that. Then if you find someone who share the same views as you. Date them. The higher you go up the ladder the higher the quality of people you come across. And the ladder is different depending on the interest you have
no this is me stating the obvious as men we are stronger, faster, we design most of whats on this planet,
the fact is they are weaker than us and even they will agree too that, now we can abuse that if we want as men,
they can go to college get a PHD etc, but the moment we get or hands on them there fucked read history there was a man who had 30 women chained up, and if one didn't listen he would beat her until she was bruised and bloody and we can do that as men easily, BUT WE DON'T we care about them and give them the freedom too chose, so yes we as men give them freedom
see your looking at this like an ALPHA or a PUA
im trying too break that cause its not necessary there's no point to it all its doing
is feeding women stupidity
I mean lets be honest how many of these have you seen on this site, if you think they change when there older no they actually get worse
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1890385-i-cheated-on-my-boyfriend-what-do-i-do
Being an Alpha is the most freeing thing. Its being a leader. Its taking control of your life. Its becoming the pilot instead of being the passenger. Alpha can be male or female.
In some ways we are stronger than woman but also in a lot of ways we are weaker. And if you think long enough you can see the areas where men fall short. You saying that we give them freedom? That is a very controlling statement. No woman or man wants to be controlled. I Don't agree that men give female's freedom. I completely disagree with that.
Alpha is a leader we need that in this world. And being one is not feeding a woman who are not stupid. No one is stupid. Everyone is good at something.
Fact: Some woman are fucked up and some men are fucked up. The thing you linked. Things like that happen off of this site too. It happens some men cheat.. some woman cheat. You dont have to be with those people. Set your own standard. Thats another thing
I or anyone else who became Alpha did not do it for woman. You do it for yourself. You do it too take control and shape your life the way you want it to be. I have things in my mind about how a SO should treat me and how I should treat them. It boils down to this. If both people go into a relationship to give and only give. Then both peoples needs will be met.
your 18 you don't know how to be alpha right now its all about fucking and women at your age I know trust me I was 18 once
and an alpha is not a leader if you wanna believe the stuff online that's not what an alpha is cause than that means im an alpha, and my cousin, and my mom and the list goes on, took me a while too realize what an alpha is
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also okay this one is number 2757 the number doesn't get any lower and you want me too trust women lol good luck man, do some studies on cheating and how much it actually happens both for men and women, understand there are good women but like I said there in such small amount its crazy how small it actually is
I have done my studying and researching to know what an alpha is. Don't look at what others are doing my age. "alpha is not a leader" You are very mistaken with that statement.
Just before you were telling me I look at things at an Alpha perspective but now I am too young to do that?
Why did you link porn?
I guess you were cheated on and now every woman is a cheater? Go out there in the world and stop rationalizing your fucked up mindset. Very unhealthy. Do that and you will see there are a lot of woman out there who won't cheat. The Alpha is the leader of the pack. So you saying an Alpha is not a leader you are wrong. An Alpha leads by example. An Alpha takes care of themselves and feeds their mind. They lead... A company's greatness starts with the leader. My age has nothing to do with this.
You need to stop living with a scarce mindset. This is your downfall. Start living in a abundance mindset or you will be miserable. Negativity will eat you and everything you care about.
You seem to start a lot of shit on this site.
like I said you don't know what an alpha is its not a leader
and no im not scared
people say stupid shit and I call them out on there stupid shit,
that's the difference between me and them, I'm not a kiss ass,
and dude don't try to play ohh you've been cheated on crap now your mad at women cause everyone has been cheated on, not just once but multiple times that's how life works,
and don't talk about ohhhh negativity with so much going on and you want me too ignore it WHAT!!! like I said not an alpha
I hate that term anyway
I didn't say everyones been cheated on... Who said you were scared? That must be what you think we think of you then... And negativity does not mean you ignore things... You dont let it affect you badly aka getting angry/ upset or even miserable.. Instead your happy and focus on the good and why this shitty thing that happened to me is good. Thats being positive does not meaan you ignore anything. You seem to try really hard to feel significant.. First you stated your older than me making you more wiser by societies terms which in turn makes you feel significant. Like you matter more. You hate the term Alpha because deep down you dont feel alpha so if someone says Im alpha or talks about alphas you feel inferior/ less significant which makes you feel shitty. So you ended up hating the term. By saying everyone gets cheated on it makes the fact that you were cheated on less severe. Cause it happens to everyone and thats how "your life" works. It doesn't make you feel as bad by saying tht
So quality over quantity huh?
Yea the phone is for appointment/date setting only. Too many people trade this for the real thing in person and never get to experience the magic.
💯/💯
*bows*