I know most guys are totally into sex ASAP with a girl, and I am too. If I am mostly physically attracted to her no doubt I will try to lay her ASAP. But if I sense something more between us, something potentially special, I will HOLD OFF at least a week if it's up to me. If she's not ready yet then I will wait as long as I keep feeling that special something.
Why? Because me, personally, 9 times out of 10 when I have sex with a girl too fast I will lose interest. Fellas, if she's worth it then enjoy the courting phase. Enjoy the time spent before having sex where you still are getting to know each other and still nervous before meeting up with each other. Don't rush.. remember that after the date you always have your hand. Remember a time when we used to rely on only our hand to get off? Now remember and tap into the fact that you have no problem rubbing one out like a man if need be.
Every time I rushed to have sex with a girl, what's left? No sexual tension, no excitement, nothing. Everything changes after you guys fuck lets be honest here. And besides, the sex will be so much better when there's a good build up. ALL of the ones I've fucked on the first night and continued to for a few weeks, all those relationships failed. Nothing specific happened, the contact between us just sort of faded.
Not only is everything I said above better for the potential relationship, but it's a better look for you. Remember; girls don't think like guys.. girls don't think "He didn't fuck me as soon as he had a chance, what a fucking pussy". Instead she will think "wow he respects me as a person, he's not desperate for sex, and simply enjoys my company". A girl thinking that will cause her to look at you with higher value.
So in conclusion.. if she's down for it on the first night then by all means fuck the shit out of her, but don't expect much. If she's worth it, chances are she won't be down for it on the first night and it's