i will never even approach a girl to give her the options to reject me anyway, i know they love that shit, they love to rejected guys.. they do it all the time, like 85 percent of the time, so i won't give them what they want, i won't allow them the pleasure of being able to reject me, those heartless cunts... i have never hit on a girl and i never will, fuck u bitches hahaha
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You're absolutely right. Taking rejection with a smile and keeping your chin up makes you that much more attractive to any women who are paying attention. It might even change the opinion of the one who just rejected you.
And the "we can be friends, though" line should always be answered with a no. Never give anything without getting something in return. That might sound selfish, but otherwise you're seeing yourself up to be used
When I broke up with my first girlfriend she asked me, "could we remain friends?" i1.kym-cdn.com/.../NOPE.jpg
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"Get on to the next 10 chicks that are ready to jump into bed with you." - Unfortunately, such girls don't exist in my case (unless they are really unattractive or obese). From my sad life experience, I've learned that girls don't like me, probably because of my shyness and lack of self-confidence, or I'm just too ugly.
good advice except for friendzone part: more female friends = more opportunities. social networking, etc. you just got to be stoic about the whole thing.
I'll act however I well please during rejection. If I feel the urge to call her a b**** because she is actually being one so be it. Don't care if that makes me a bad guy. Honestly really dont care in general how I look to her.
I predict in 50 years it won't really be a problem. we will be able to use 3d gaming reworked for virtual sex with whoever's online at the time and wants to play the woman. Or contact lenses that make your SO look hot as even if there a 300 pound 80 year old conjoined twin. People in wheelchairs can use robotic suits to let them do all the position we can and go at it like rabbits. As you can tell I day dream too much id be interested to work on the robotic suits though.
Why am I only just seeing this now? Everyone needs to stop being butt hurt after being rejected. I had a guy get angry at me because I wouldn't stop and talk to him.
Mate I'm married I wasn't going to stand around chatting with a guy while my husband was at home with our kids. Do you think that I was never rejected when I was out in the dating scene? Rejection happens. Would you stop going to job interviews because you never succeed in getting a job?
I did stop for a while going to job interviews because I was rejected too much. The same in dating, a lot of men will give up because so many women only want the best of the best to approach them.
i would if i didn't want a job that much, its not worth letting a evil bitch get what they want cos they love rejecting guys... i won't give em that satisfaction
True however if all you know is rejection it can be disheartening you have to realize that. Not saying I've ever done any of this but you get my point.
Yeah... You know I actully got a joker smile tattoo on my wrist so when im feeling down and depressed I cover my face with it and it reminds me to just move on and fake a smile.. It makes people laugh amd others call it stupid not knowing there's a deeper meaning behind it personally for me. It represents how I go through life smiling even though deep down im faking it cause most people look at me and think im the happiest person in the world lol
OMG if I could hug you right now I would. Don't want to brag or anything but the last time l got rejected, I didn't put myself in a depressive hole. I just said, "cool no hard feelings."
@evenlift rejection is a learning experience. I already know not all guys will want to date me and once people realize they aren't everybodies type, it gets easier.
"rejection is a learning experience. I already know not all guys will want to date me and once people realize they aren't everybodies type, it gets easier. "
That's easy for a woman to say, women don't go through bad experiences or rejection on auto pilot like men do. Women will never understand unless they walk in a man's shoes am afraid. I think it's much better if women just did the approaching instead of men according to results, it's feels more linear to be fair.
Lmao I had one bitter guy on here message me. Told me he knows his girlfriend is ugly like wtf? 😂 like change your self image lift and ask other chicks out if you wanna a better girl lmao
Lmao I just saw one guy call you a white night. Same dude I was talking about did the same thing. 😂 he's like you need to come down to real life white night like wtf? Just cuz he can't get tail and we can? 😂
So true on friend zone, you are below the value of cow shit at this point she doesn't really want to be your friend she says that to not be a total bitch.
Anyone who thinks expressing your feelings openly and getting a flat rejection in response is easy to take should try being on the receiving end sometime.
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i will never even approach a girl to give her the options to reject me anyway,
i know they love that shit, they love to rejected guys.. they do it all the time, like 85 percent of the time,
so i won't give them what they want, i won't allow them the pleasure of being able to reject me, those heartless cunts... i have never hit on a girl and i never will, fuck u bitches hahaha
You're absolutely right. Taking rejection with a smile and keeping your chin up makes you that much more attractive to any women who are paying attention. It might even change the opinion of the one who just rejected you.
And the "we can be friends, though" line should always be answered with a no. Never give anything without getting something in return. That might sound selfish, but otherwise you're seeing yourself up to be used
When I broke up with my first girlfriend she asked me, "could we remain friends?"
i1.kym-cdn.com/.../NOPE.jpg
"Get on to the next 10 chicks that are ready to jump into bed with you." - Unfortunately, such girls don't exist in my case (unless they are really unattractive or obese). From my sad life experience, I've learned that girls don't like me, probably because of my shyness and lack of self-confidence, or I'm just too ugly.
good advice except for friendzone part: more female friends = more opportunities. social networking, etc. you just got to be stoic about the whole thing.
I'll act however I well please during rejection. If I feel the urge to call her a b**** because she is actually being one so be it. Don't care if that makes me a bad guy. Honestly really dont care in general how I look to her.
Quite right
I predict in 50 years it won't really be a problem.
we will be able to use 3d gaming reworked for virtual sex with whoever's online at the time and wants to play the woman.
Or contact lenses that make your SO look hot as even if there a 300 pound 80 year old conjoined twin.
People in wheelchairs can use robotic suits to let them do all the position we can and go at it like rabbits.
As you can tell I day dream too much id be interested to work on the robotic suits though.
Funny, I just wrote my own Take about why women are more sensitive to rejection, lol.
Lol link me I'll give a read soon.
@Fearless_banana Check it out: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a29140-why-i-think-women-are-more-sensitive-to-rejection
If the link doesn't work you can just go on my page and it'll be the latest Take you see.
... will you marry me?
Lol let's do it.
Are you coming to Ohio or should I go to Cali? rofl
Cali beats ohio by a long shot. You come here.
U can't spell osu without cocksuckers
It is lol
Wow i've lived in both of those places.
Why am I only just seeing this now?
Everyone needs to stop being butt hurt after being rejected.
I had a guy get angry at me because I wouldn't stop and talk to him.
or jus not give anyone the option to reject us in the first place and never talk to the opposite sex
Mate I'm married I wasn't going to stand around chatting with a guy while my husband was at home with our kids.
Do you think that I was never rejected when I was out in the dating scene?
Rejection happens.
Would you stop going to job interviews because you never succeed in getting a job?
I did stop for a while going to job interviews because I was rejected too much. The same in dating, a lot of men will give up because so many women only want the best of the best to approach them.
i would if i didn't want a job that much, its not worth letting a evil bitch get what they want cos they love rejecting guys... i won't give em that satisfaction
@smartman12 yeah, if girls werent extremely picky id try more
@UglyestGuyEver wow calling a woman an evil bitch, nice one mate.
im an incel, what do u expect
and not jus 1 woman, all females are evil bitches, its a fact, im not jus making this up
True however if all you know is rejection it can be disheartening you have to realize that. Not saying I've ever done any of this but you get my point.
"Just get over it!" only works for successful men. Rejections make you stronger, but only if it eventually leads to success.
*You* try being rejected time and time again, while smiling all the time. You can't.
Yeah... You know I actully got a joker smile tattoo on my wrist so when im feeling down and depressed I cover my face with it and it reminds me to just move on and fake a smile.. It makes people laugh amd others call it stupid not knowing there's a deeper meaning behind it personally for me. It represents how I go through life smiling even though deep down im faking it cause most people look at me and think im the happiest person in the world lol
OMG if I could hug you right now I would. Don't want to brag or anything but the last time l got rejected, I didn't put myself in a depressive hole. I just said, "cool no hard feelings."
I keep hearing about these girls who can allegedly handle rejection, but I have yet to see one in real life!
@evenlift rejection is a learning experience. I already know not all guys will want to date me and once people realize they aren't everybodies type, it gets easier.
"rejection is a learning experience. I already know not all guys will want to date me and once people realize they aren't everybodies type, it gets easier. "
Exactly, well said!
@flypaper thank you!
That's easy for a woman to say, women don't go through bad experiences or rejection on auto pilot like men do. Women will never understand unless they walk in a man's shoes am afraid. I think it's much better if women just did the approaching instead of men according to results, it's feels more linear to be fair.
See the experiment for yourself:
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=DmP1ier3R30
@Mrwoo99 I have been rejected myself and I took it graciously. -_-
Lmao I had one bitter guy on here message me. Told me he knows his girlfriend is ugly like wtf? 😂 like change your self image lift and ask other chicks out if you wanna a better girl lmao
lmfaoo. Don't understand these people man
Lmao I just saw one guy call you a white night. Same dude I was talking about did the same thing. 😂 he's like you need to come down to real life white night like wtf? Just cuz he can't get tail and we can? 😂
I always threw it back in their faces. When you tell them you won't settle, invariably it takes control away from them. Women hate that.
Getting turned down is not the end of the world and is often not even about the guy in the first place.
What a guy, totally agree, you're ahead of the game.
Exactly, get rejected accept it, smile and walk away lol. Simple as that
So true on friend zone, you are below the value of cow shit at this point she doesn't really want to be your friend she says that to not be a total bitch.
Anyone who thinks expressing your feelings openly and getting a flat rejection in response is easy to take should try being on the receiving end sometime.