The "Nice Guy' vs. The "Bad Boy" (Page 2)
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I think you're telling the truth about the first part and bullshitting about the second part. There's no way you got away with approaching random girls on the street, putting your hands on their waists, asking them if they like pecs (really weird question, and that women said she needed guys with bigger muscles and saw you as unmanly, so you probably have no pecs), commenting on their tits right away, then getting their numbers.
"I have been having sex with a different woman each day this week. I have also had sex with 2 different women on the same day."
Did. Not. Happen.
I am sorry this does not happen to you.
Dude, every person here can see through your bullshit. No one goes from having no sex to having sex with a woman every day, and if that's true, good luck with your herpes
I respectfully disagree. Although I have fallen victim to the bad boy, that isn't what I'm attracted to. I'm attracted to confidence.
I have never and willl never have casual sex. I will say it's attractive for a guy to show he's sexually attracted to me through touching my inner thigh and/or grabbing my neck. That's shows confidence and dominance. He isn't afraid to make a move
". I will say it's attractive for a guy to show he's sexually attracted to me through touching my inner thigh and/or grabbing my neck. That's shows confidence and dominance. He isn't afraid to make a move"
But only if you find him attractive though or otherwise him "making a move" is creepy.
@BubbleBoy69 yes, that's true
Poor ugly guy for trying as soon as he tries to talk no matter how confident you'll tell him "ewww get the hell away from me".
@CHRIS11796 ugly isn't a definitive term. Everyone has their own preferences in physical appearances.
I know what I'm saying is even if he's not really ugly just not your type you would still consider him ugly.
So you made a discovery that young women are just as interested in sex as young men are. I don't know about the type of girls you came across but there are women out there who are past that stage and prefer men who are like you. You sound like you are beautiful inside and out. Just be yourself and you will eventually find the right girl. Don't give up. (CAUTION: i'm being nice, not flirting lol)
First, you didn't have to make a complete 180. You could've just tried to be more charming, intense and forward on the dates to build up the chemistry and sexual tension... on a healthy level.
Second, I don't know what type of girls you went for because I would never let a guy talk to me that way, much less sleep with me. In fact, I've turned a couple of very good-looking men down because one was only looking for sex and the other was a total idiot.
A lot of women say,
" I would never let a guy talk to me that way, much less sleep with me."
Those are the women that are the easiest to sleep with.
Apparently not, cause I'm still a virgin.
Im not gonna lie, he's kinda right. Many of these seemingly puritane women are straight up pretending.
Interesting, it's actually rare to find a guy who will approach a girl and not be interested in having sex with her just simply wants to get to know her. I say sense now you're trying to settle down just keep trying to be "the nice guy" because i'm sure there will be a woman out there that will like the nice guy. Just don't give up keep trying and i'm sure a woman out there will be interested in you.
That's what most girls think... If a guy approaches them he only wants sex.
That is wrong, there are a lot of guys who want to genuinely get to know you and see where it goes. Friends or probrally dating.
Being the nice guy will get you nowhere fast. I am that type and I know from experience.
I was at a costume party last weekend and started talking to this really sweet girl dressed in a giraffe costume, I was drawn to her because she was pretty much the only one there who wasn't half naked. My friend was there womanizing an making out with drunk girls, and the whole time her and I were talking, she would ask questions about my friend.. so basically the nice guy who was interested in knowing more about her, was invisible because the guy sucking face with random girls was more interesting. I knew for sure she wanted nothing to do with me when she asked me to put my number in her phone.
@CBryan was she a younger girl? and yeah... it's game over when a girl asks you for your contact info when she won't give you hers. It means she intends on deleting your number once you go away
As a man who is a virgin in late 30's, I feel like it's not easy to have a serious relationship, nor sex out of a woman, no matter what you do: 1. If you are not good looking, or 2. Rich, or 3. A very cunning liar who know various seductive/sweetalking skills.
Without at least one of those attributes, you are screwed (I know I am).
Hmm does anyone smell that?
It's a faint, *sniffs* scent
I believe it would be... *sniffs* bullshit
Women do not like smart men because their harder to manipulate. Women care about social status, money, looks. If your dumb that's beneficial for them because it's easier to manipulate you.
Also you just basiccally hit a key in female behavior. It's called alpha fux/beta bux. Guys who act quickly and escalate get sex. Guys who try to get to know a girl get regulated into boyfriend category at which she will make you wait until she thinks you've earned the right to have sex with her or she friendzones you.
This is is basic female behavior.
Actually... you are completely right. I was talking to this guy at the bar last year, and he was a pickup artist, and quite successful at getting women. He asked me a question:
"Do you know any smart and intelligent men that get fucked by women often?"
He told me that women don't want to fuck the smart guy.
Interesting perspective. If a guy approaches me, I always ask myself 'what does this guy want from me?' And I try to categorize quickly. If he's quick, confident, carrying sex vibe, then I ask myself- do I want to do that with him. Most likely no because casual is not my style. But in the off chance I might. If he's slower, struggling a bit, still staying in 'I want sex' vibe I will definitely saw no. If he's slow and stammering but appears to be making an honest effort at meeting me, just having trouble with shy, etc. Then I will hear him out. Try to help him be more comfortable. Then as we talk I would still be analyzing 'what does this guy want?' And also 'is that what I would want with him? ' might be no, might be yes. Relationships take effort. They are harder to 'decide'. Yes, would take more time to know if I wanted to open my life to him. To share my Life. That is likely where you think a woman is just putting the guy off, making him wait, or sticking in friendzone.
I'm going to go out on a limb here and say that you are a bald-faced liar.
Yeah the all of a sudden sleeping with 8 women in one week was a bit hard to believe...
@Lostsoulman ACtually... it's not that hard. If you have balls and approach a lot of women... say a mall or club or bar, you can rack up a lot of numbers.
Numbers are not hard to get... Even first dates aren't...
Sex is hard to get though, you have to play every single card right... One slip up and it's over...
If a guy put his hands on my waist... most likely I sue them for sexual harassment. I went out with nice guys they just didn't really want to go on a second date with me unlike bad guys who see me as a conquest. oh wells... life
Women are horn dogs too and just want a fling that they can easily distance themselves from when the time comes.
If the guy is an "asshole" it's "not the woman's fault" and it provides easy justification in her mind to move on.
Well i know like i haven't even "made it in life"... yet but to me nice guys are cute and well NICE but girls (to me) go for the bad boys cuz they want the guy to be in charge and something adventurous. like if the nice guys you know take the lead at times would be great and not just ask the girl everything every single time.. i know "im just tryin to be a gentleman" and all but be in charge at times
You're making assumptions and stereotyping nice guys.
You said: "o for the bad boys cuz they want the guy to be in charge and something adventurous"
I do take charge and take the lead.
man , to fuck a girl now is much eaier than to take her to dinner
Whatever. There is one TRUTH regarding women. If the guy is good-looking, women won't care about anything they might do or have done. If the guy isn't, being a good person doesn't matter in the slightest.
I wished I could meet a nice guy like you. I think you have a awesome goal. It is sad that every time you are trying to get to know someone to have a serious relationship they just want sex. Wow those women just let a good guy slip away from them.
The bad guy is a one time fuck the nice guy is who I married
Lol so you got all used up by chads and then married a nerd to support you financially?
@Chico_brah No I dated a guy for two years who I thought loved me so I gave him everything I had and then I met the guy who actually does love me
Alpha Fucks/Beta bucks.
a bad boy sucks when it comes to a serious relationship
Women should just go extinct if they can't stop saying "ooh you are a nasty primitive man, no propagation for you"
but the asshole they hate is the first one they jump in bed with...
to love one is one that love beautifully with nothing but love it self.